im a lesbian but i havent told anyone because i get so nervous and scared. its driving me crazy though not being able to talk about it and i get so frustrated every day. i havent been with a woman yet, only kissed, and ive been so extremely attracted to women as long as i can remember. i cant get through the day without having to masterbate. even seeing a pretty girl in a tight shirt gets me so aroused. i have to relieve myself 7-10 times a day. it gets in the way of work and everything. if i dont i feel like im going to explode and it hurts and throbs so badly. if im alone i watch lesbian pornography or masterbate to pictures of naked women online. if i dont have a computer i even touch myself to magazines like cosmo and stuff because im so desperate. i want to be with a girl so bad it hurts but i dont know where to meet anyone and im so nervous when im alone with a girl. please help, sometimes i think im going to go crazy if i dont get to be with a girl soon
There are several places to meet people. There are many bars out there designed for lesbians. Look in your local phone book, there are also escort places that cater to the lesbian women.
You can also look in the personnals, tho sometimes you can't trust that.
Are you looking for a long term relationship or are you just trying to get your feet wet?
I would try the escorts first, They are clean and it is descreet. Let her know it's your first time. After you have your first experience, then maybe you can venture out on your own.
The only draw back with an escort service is, you have to pay for it.
You can also look in the personnals, tho sometimes you can't trust that.
Are you looking for a long term relationship or are you just trying to get your feet wet?
I would try the escorts first, They are clean and it is descreet. Let her know it's your first time. After you have your first experience, then maybe you can venture out on your own.
The only draw back with an escort service is, you have to pay for it.
I'm only 18 years old and have been masturbating ever since i was about four years of age. At one point in my life i felt ashamed to do it, but its honestly a healthy activity. On average I get off 3-4 times a day. Although I recently moved to Dallas and have to share a bed with a friend of mine. So i haven't been able to have my normal sexual release. I've had several girlfriends, but as of right now Ive been in a problem. A girl i liked only had sex with me once and stopped because her best friend is in love with me and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. So i am left alone once more. And since i share a bed with the girl that has feelings for me and i do not, i can't get off. And i don't want to ask her to help me because i want her feelings to go away.
I can only get off a certain way and that's laying on my stomach and no other way can suffice. I'm going insane. I have HAVE to get off before i keel over. Also i have really bad anxiety so i just want to meet a girl that will just solve my urges.
Not to mention I've been loosing weight and I'm already rather thin, I've also got I.B.S or irritable bowel syndrome. I feel its because i don't have my average sexual release, therefore my depression makes me sick. What the hell am i supposed to do about this? Get a hotel room to satisfy myself?
Someone help me somehow. :[
I can only get off a certain way and that's laying on my stomach and no other way can suffice. I'm going insane. I have HAVE to get off before i keel over. Also i have really bad anxiety so i just want to meet a girl that will just solve my urges.
Not to mention I've been loosing weight and I'm already rather thin, I've also got I.B.S or irritable bowel syndrome. I feel its because i don't have my average sexual release, therefore my depression makes me sick. What the hell am i supposed to do about this? Get a hotel room to satisfy myself?
Someone help me somehow. :[
um, im a lesbian too, but i dont think your supposed to be that arounsed when you look at women or kiss one. maybe you have over active glands or something. i dont know. but what i do know is that there are a couple of dating sites for lesbians, cant think of any right now, so just try to google it. =)
happy hunting!
ps, i hope you find a girl just as turned on you get. tell me when you find the right women.
happy hunting!
ps, i hope you find a girl just as turned on you get. tell me when you find the right women.
Meditation and yoga can definitely help. Sexual craving is normal at this age and this is what makes you bloom. Take care of yourself make more contacts in social circuit. Start by taking care of yourself from inside (mind) and then outside. Find someone who can atleast emotionally satisfy you and make u feel beautifull. remember relationship is give and take. Be better at it. I had a GF who confessed the same after long years being together about her craving and why she acted strange. she used to feel bad about her image, she had anxiety and other self related issue. Hanging out together had made a lot of difference.
Master bate when you go to the bathroom.