Colon cleansing before anal sex!?

when u have anal sex can u just take a sh*t and dat be it or its best for u to douche

Well, sweetie. I have had anal sex about 7,000 times...lol. I don't have vaginal. I've done some pretty rough play and you can't always clean when you're in the moment. Just go to the bathroom. It was alittle messy once and that's when I was drunk, so don't do it if you have mixed drinks in your system. but every other time I've done it, I been fine. You really want to prep then just don't eat the day before.. Then you have no issues.

I have been expimenting with prosta/anal orgasm for a little while and have a question

Is it possible to get orgasm from only stimulating prosta through anus (I use a dildo)

I got some good feelings from a kind of lust points the dildo strokes prosta and also got semen fluid running, but never got explosive orgasm, it feels like the orgasm is building up but cant get beyond that, am I doing it wrong, more patience, slower? or is it just the way anal/prosta orgasm feels?

 

My boyfriend and I recently tried anal sex. The only cleansing you really need is to make sure you poop before doing it. Use a condom, use lots of lube, and if you go back to vaginal sex afterward INSIST on him putting on a new condom. There are too many health risks involved NOT TO. It's also important to keep your anus relaxed. One of the most difficult things i experienced during anal was that it just felt like pooping to me, so when he was inserted in me it was hard for me to not "poop" him out...

In Argentina we use the "bidet" and lots of water to clean our bottoms. A bidet is a ceramic device that has down in the middle of it, a shower outlet pointing up directly to the anus of the person that sits on it. Once you use this cleansing method you won't want to use toilet paper any more. Also, with good water presure, its very useful for a woman to wash her rectum and anal/vaginal area before a sexual intercourse sesion of any kind, and specially if everything starts with an oral investigation of her parts...

I think you have worms.

where did you get that bottle from?

It is the most pleasurable thing a girl could enjoy! The. penis could stimulate your g-spot from behind. The thin wall between your vagina and anus allows the penis to stimulate your g-spot.

Anal sex is wonderful. I enjoy it immensely and have a very different type of orgasm from it than vaginal sex. More intense. I try to eat less during the day before I know I want anal and eat nothing four or more hours before. If i feel that i have remaining fecal matter I use a nozzle attached to my tub and gently wash it out. I wait at lease 30 minutes after a wash out before having sex so that all water is gone. 

What thats so wrong would you put soap in your vagina "NO" you should use a warter enema may be with a little vinager No soap!

To begin with, if you're eating a high fiber diet, it's very helpful. Regular bowel movements with a high fiber diet most of the work for you to begin with and leaves little behind for you to take care of. The longer you can go without eating prior to sex but, after the enema, the better off you are.

Sometimes, a good bowel movement will do the job but, not always and better to be safe than to ruin that moment and have to go clean up before continuing the sexual encounter.

I recommend a simple luke warm water enema. You can use an enema bag/hot water bottle (they're usually combined now) or an enema syringe or buy a disposable fleet enema (the first time, only). I would use the Fleet enema the first time only and save the bottle and instructions since that seems to be the cheapest way to get the water up your bum for the enema. What can also be used is a bidet, a shower massage hose (on very low) and you'll figure out what else you can use. (you can become dependent on a Fleets enema and it contains chemicals to induce you to have a bowel movement and should only be used when you're constipated and not for cleaning for sex)

After attempting to have a bowel movement or successfully having one, fill your rectum with luke warm water and hold for a few minutes. Then allow it to flush out. The first flush will almost always have feces. But, as you repeat it, the water will be cleaner with each successive filling and flushing. I recommend doing this in the bath tub...you can always wash whatever comes out down the drain and you don't have to worry about leaking or dripping around the bathroom.

Then I would use either my fingers (preferrably gloved), a dildo, a small butt plug or something similar. Two to three fingers is about the equavelent to the size of a man's penis, so by inserting one at first and graduating up, you'll not only be able to check for residue problems, but, get used to how anal intercourse might feel. But, CHECK CAREFULLY for any residual feces still in the colon.

The more time you give yourself after the enema, before intecourse, the better as the colon will absorb most of the water you don't get out. DO NOT EAT after you have your enema until AFTER YOU HAVE INTERCOURSE. Anything you eat is going to cause your digestive system to start working again and make you produce more feces, so try not to eat between the cleaning and the intercourse unless you eat just before you have intercourse and then keep the portion small or light.

How big of a meal you ate prior to this will also make a difference. If were doing this in the morning and you went to a all-you-can-eat buffet the night before, it's going to take you longer than if you just had a pot pie at home. So, gauge how much before hand you want to do the enema so the rectum has a chance to absorb any water and to calm down before you have intercourse.

You can have intercourse 15 minutes after you complete the enema but, after waiting the 15 minutes, I'd check to make sure that there wasn't some tale tell signs of feces by attempting to have a bowel movement again. If you have one or water comes out that is not clear, then you didn't get it cleaned out well enough, so you'll need to do it again.

If the person you are going to have anal intercourse with has a longer than standard penis (6 inches or longer) the higher up in your rectum you want to clean. So, that may take longer as well and you'll want to put your face down on the bed, the floor or the bathtub and keep your butt in the air or side to side (like an enema box suggests) and hold it for longer periods of time then make sure you have a dildo that's at least 6 inches long to not only get you ready for it but, to make sure that your clean. Insert the dildo, finger or what ever you're using and then plunge it back and forth in your rectum and it will act like a toilet plunger and help pull down what you may have missed. So, use your head, use common sense, & don't use HOT water, it can burn the tissues of your rectum.

To be even fresher, you can use castile soap only. It is purchased at grocery stores and if they don't carry it, usually a drug store will. By the liquid if they have it, if not, suds up the bar and then use your hand as a funnel to wash the soap off your hands and into the bottle until you have the desired strength. Most all other soaps, bar, or liquid are too strong for an enema and can cause problems for you later on like diarehea or other issues.

One trick I do recommend is when you have the time, do a clean out 4 hours ahead of time and then again about an hour before just to freshen up and to make sure you're cleaned out. This works best.

When it gets down to the time to have anal sex... use plenty of lube (preferrably water soluable) and it's recommended that your boyfriend use a condom for clenlieness (but, not necessary). Take your time.... Relax... and with your anus lubed and his finger lubed, have him put in his finger gently to the first joint and move it around in gentle circular motions. this will help your spincter to relax. Then when you're ready to start inserting his penis, have him do in just a few centimeters at a time, then stop and allow you to relax again and the discomfort to subside (and it will) then insert more VERY SLOWY, stopping and waiting each time until the discomfort subsides and then when the penis is inserted to the thickest point, just have him stop, continue to breathe and relax and when you're both ready, have him begin with small gentle back and forth motions, slowly until he can put his penis all the way in without causing any more discomfort then stop, breathe and begin to slowly go through the in and out motions of intercourse. At any time during the inserting of the penis, you feel, scratchy, dry or rough, have him stop, and apply more lube to the penis and your anus as well...you cannot use too much lube! Then begin again. You will feel discomfort when the penis is being inserted every time at the begining but, as you become more experienced with anal intercourse, you'll be able to relax much qucker and easier. As you both relax and the intercourse continues you'll find that you'll be enjoying it more and more as time goes by until completion. Some women and men can achieve orgasm from anal intercourse with out stimulating the genitals, some can easily orgasm by gently stimulating them and some take and increased amount of stimulation but, an orgasm for the partner on the recieving end of the penis, can be very powerful and usually much more intense when they have a penis in their rectum and is reported as being quite enjoyable.

A water only, or castile soap and water enema does not cause any problems. You should NOT use Fleets Enemas or Chemical Commercial enemas on a regular basis, they can actually damage the rectum and anus with continued use. But, water only or castile soap and water are perfectly fine to use prior to anal sex and will cause few complications, if any, and will not harm the user.

Most acceptable reply to the conundrum so far. Thank you. OK. No soap around the anus is my only change in the shower. I have given and received without any preperation and no problems. But when you become more frequent it causes problems. On an unflushed (enema) anus, water based lube. Before entry was obtained there was lube provoked faecal matter. So don't eat-don't drink-don't lube-go with a woman !

There is a little (or a lot) of truth in each of the posts I've read, and I am certainly not an expert. I have had anal sex and it is an awesome feeling, but there have been times when it was just flat out painful. As far as cleaning goes, I've used an enema bag and those douche kits, and have used nothing as well. It all depends on you. I've had anal with no cleaning except externally, and the condom has come out clean. Other times, after using an enema, I kept getting a feeling of impending diarrhea, and there was some discharge on the condom.... I think everyone needs to use good judgement and follow the most basic practices of both cleanliness and common sense. Remember that the colon has tissues that are very thin and permeable; after all the lower section of the colon is used in part to absorb liquids! So with that in mind remember that whatever you put inside your body can and will make its way into you body. Like it has been said here by many, watch for cuts, don't be too rough until you know more about the feelings and sensations in this area. My best advice is to try various ways of cleaning yourself, then use a comfortable clean vibrator or dildo and masturbate. Look at what comes out (or doesn't), and make your mind up on your experiences. Getting to know the pains greatly reduces your anxiety as well, so a certain pain or tinge won't scare the c**p out of you..".no pun intended. Have fun!

Agree with your post 100% we use Crisco as well - it is awesome (only with some toys and we are married/monogamous. She likes the "Hung" dildo and we work that in to her ass and use the shockspot f*****g machine there while I take her in the vagina. So hot and wonderful and we both cum in multiples from it. After I cum, the sensation of the huge dildo sliding in and out of her ass via the machine gets me hard again quickly...!!

She also fasts before our sessions and if need be, washes out but makes sure to wait at least 30 minutes after to ensure that any liquid from her washing has been expelled. In this way there is almost never any undue mess.