Experienced gay man here.
3 basics:
1.) Douching is not absolutely necessary, but it will definately make for greater comfort, and less mess. Fecal matter is pasty and may feel somewhat gritty when rubbed against the colon walls. This can cause irritation and pain. Flushing it out will eliminate this problem and make things glide smoothly.
2.) Also, applying lube only to the outer parts does not properly lubricate the inside. There is a device called a Lube Shooter which will put the lube where it is needed. Use lube designed for such use, not lotion, Vaseline, etc.
3.) Get yourself a small diameter dildo or vibrator and try things by yourself, without your partner, so that you can explore and learn about your body BEFORE including another person. Warm the dildo in hot water - never cold. If things go well, then increase the size of the dildo next time. Make sure when you try it with the real thing that your partner is patient, and that you are in a position of control to start out.
If you follow these steps you should have little if any discomfort.
Anal sex is great for men (receiving) because of the prostate. It is the Other Half of the male sexual organ. Men can ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone. Many straight men are becoming aware of their ability to stimulate themselves this way, without worrying that this will "make them gay".
3 basics:
1.) Douching is not absolutely necessary, but it will definately make for greater comfort, and less mess. Fecal matter is pasty and may feel somewhat gritty when rubbed against the colon walls. This can cause irritation and pain. Flushing it out will eliminate this problem and make things glide smoothly.
2.) Also, applying lube only to the outer parts does not properly lubricate the inside. There is a device called a Lube Shooter which will put the lube where it is needed. Use lube designed for such use, not lotion, Vaseline, etc.
3.) Get yourself a small diameter dildo or vibrator and try things by yourself, without your partner, so that you can explore and learn about your body BEFORE including another person. Warm the dildo in hot water - never cold. If things go well, then increase the size of the dildo next time. Make sure when you try it with the real thing that your partner is patient, and that you are in a position of control to start out.
If you follow these steps you should have little if any discomfort.
Anal sex is great for men (receiving) because of the prostate. It is the Other Half of the male sexual organ. Men can ejaculate from prostate stimulation alone. Many straight men are becoming aware of their ability to stimulate themselves this way, without worrying that this will "make them gay".
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Thanks man, useful info, but cant a male take a loud perfectly and have no basic issue, or is that a leading cause of most STD's?
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it can happen from eating quinoa often. the rings around the quinoa dont really digest much so they end up like worm looking things. or it could be fibers from vegetables and fruits
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Haha, I wonder if people ever check their replies?? Well, if you do check this, I want to say thank you! This was very informative and I truly appreciate the information! Every piece of info you posted was/is needed! I'm a female and I'm definitely going to try it *scared tho* I'd prefer advice from a males point of view... Thank You, Thank You, Thank You! Happy New Year!!!
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Hello! I'm 37 and have found that a good anal cleansing helps before engaging in anal sex. I find if you do an enima your bowels are no where near as sudden or potentially having an embarrassing moment during or after sex. And remember, (using my best motherly tone) always use a condom and a good quality lube! I prefer pujr eros back door -Has a relaxant or wet platinum.
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I've read quite a few suggestions and not one recommends using a condom.
Along with all of the other suggestions...
Use a condom !
Along with all of the other suggestions...
Use a condom !
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Omg. First article I've seen that really addresses the practical issues that come up in these situations. Love love love you for this. People may criticise or pick apart parts of your message, but if a reader seriously researches the critiques, they'll find your message is incredibly accurate and has a very healthy message.
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Disgusting human beings worse than animals! How can you promote such a filthy thing? Are your guys normal? Be sane and hygienic for once and stop promoting such disgusting practices such as anal sex!
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Lol I love it fast And hard in my ass.. I don't understand the meaning of slow sex!
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