I had my first time was with a 23 yr old..I love him..but he sort of puts me last on his list. He has a daughter, and a whole lot of drama, so I understand him being distracted, but I couldn't stand how we were getting more distant and I ended things. It hurt me so badly, because he still cares about me and says so. I had had sex 4 times with him in the 4 months we were together. He was about 9.5 inches, but he would guide me through it. He was always ready and raring to go when I was. Now, I'm with a completely sweet, caring guy. He's not of the same physique (my ex was 6'2" and lean & muscular). He is the same height as me (5'6") and even though he is muscular, his stomach still isnt firm. Plus, he's not that big. I can get aroused by him..and he has taught me what it feels like to be pleasured. my ex more focused on his pleasure during actual sex. Last week, my ex kissed me...Lately, I have been having second thoughts. My new bf has troubles getting it up (we've only had sex once and he came really fast). I'm torn between the two...I just don't know what to do. with one, I never orgasmed but i would feel pleasure when he was inside me. with the new bf, I have orgasmed bc he focuses on clitoral stimulation, but no pleasure during penetration (bc there really isnt any).I love my ex, but really care for my current bf. Sex isn't a huuuuge part of a relationship, i know..but I do like it. Any advice?
My advice to you hun would be to stay with your current boyfriend as if seems to care more cant you and what you want than your ex does.
As you say sex isn't everything but if if doesn't excite you with penetrative sex if certainly seems to know how to do oral on you to hit the spot.
Hope this is some help hun :-)
As you say sex isn't everything but if if doesn't excite you with penetrative sex if certainly seems to know how to do oral on you to hit the spot.
Hope this is some help hun :-)