I also have the same problem! Mine is always in the same spot and it looks almost exactly like a pimple. Sometimes it will come to a slight head. I shave every three to four days and if its been a while since I've shaved, it goes away but as soon as I shave, within 24 hrs its back! Idk what meeds to be done other than stop shaving. Although it does make me feel like its an ingrown hair considering the circumstances.
I have experienced the red soft bump in my outer labia several times. The "pimple" type bump is very sensitive. It eventually comes to a head and you can pop it. It drains and heals quickly.
Same exact thing just happened to me. I popped and picked at it. (It was an ingrown hair) It turned into a yellowish scab over night. I soaked in Avenno baby oatmeal bath soap (little packets) that help sooth irritated skin the next morning. I sat there for about 10 minutes gently massaging it. It was pretty much gone after I got out!!!! I disinfected it which did sting. But it's just a little pink unraised area now.
Was it a ingrown hair ??
What did the doctor say?