I'm in the same position. Divorce has crossed my mind but it's going to be a long haul. I'll be clear. I'm an indian, married to an Indian, American born. Going back home in a huff is going to pose enormous issues. We are both professionals, though I don't work yet. There is this constant need to demean my faith, ( he is an atheist), this regular insane addiction to video games (3-4am every night), out of plain frustration, I got drunk one day.....and he ripped my credit card. I don't drive......so I'm home all day, studying to get my license. It gets boring and I can't do much talking to a dog. I've lost 20 lbs without trying even a bit and find myself getting up at all hours....crying. Now he proclaims maddening love, but insists he was never shown love at home. However, when I try, I have this very sad, uninterested man who truly I believe has a severe case of attention deficit. The man literally does not hear me. And yes, I do baby him. To tell me to stop, goes against every bit of teaching patience. After all, I've been married just a year. There has to be a way of weaning a person off such behavior. I forget to mention, porn is also a problem. And at one point, when we fought.......he ran to an ex in Dubai to be his confidante. Of course, I screamed.......but I forgave. This note is all over the place but if anyone can make sense of such a dilemma........do throw in some insight.
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I am considering leaving my husband too. Even though he would stop his game if I ask him to do something for me. But he plays game the whole day. If we go out for any reason, he just wants to rush back home so he can play his game. I don't know that playing game is a bad thing or not but i am the person who don't like to stop someone enjoying something they like. The first baby, he left me at the hospital with my newborn and came home to play game. Thought he went home to rest or sleep. I am going to have another baby with him but I think this one is the same. I will have take care of my children by myself again. I still love him but I think he is a bad simple for my children to think it is ok to play game all the time.
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Hello everyone....I have been with my ex partner for 13 years and one of the reasons I have left him was because his gaming addition. He would get up at 6 am,have shower and play computer games for an hour or so before starting work. He would come home, make a cup of tea and again playing computer games untl late. He would devote his week ends playing computer games and with his so called friends. And guessm whip did all the cleaning, washing a food shopping? Me.the funny thing is that he spent hours with his virtual friends but suddenly there were not there when I had to take him to hospital or look after him when he was unwell. He was never there for me. Dumping this great looser was one if the best things that I did in my life. He is good for nothing
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my husband is so addictied he is on the game every waking moment. only away from the computer to get some pop go to the rest room. i am not to interrupt him or ask any thing of him or he flies off the handle. all of his ssd check goes onto the game and says its his check my name is not on it, its to make his life easier not mine and doesn't help with household cost, georcerys or any thing. if i am short for the electric bill i can borrow form him but have to pay him back when i get my paycheck. he was a drunk and nearly died mixing heart medication and anti depress meds with booze and went from one addiction to another, if i say something he will tell me would you rather i drink i will go to the bar right now.. i have had enough. i struggle pay day to payday while face book gets 1600 dollars a month we should not be struggling. its always has been about him his needs his wants. i get sick i have to call someone to take me to emergency because he won't leave his game. i cook clean and do everything that needs to be done while he sits on a game.. i want out. but he said you pay for a divorce. how he leaves me no money.. i hate it. this life sucks.. i may as well be divorced i am on my own any ways
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My husband started playing GOW 2 months ago. He promised me that he wasn't spending a dime playing; but as the game started taking full control of his life (he'd play all day long from 7am-11pm, in the car, out on dates, everywhere!) I started questioning it and looking into it. He racked up $3,800 in 2 short months! And lied to me the whole time, hiding it and lying about where the money was really going. After I confronted him about this, he continued spending money and playing (still is!), despite my asking him to stop. He doesn't see this as a problem, but considering it's caused him to lie to me on several occasions and rack up so much debt, I don't know how much more of this I can take.
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Might I add the online relationships that are developed. I know of many married men and women who are having online love affairs with people in their alliances. I know this first hand. If he plays game of war and has line app...he more than likely has online love interest.
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Just wanted to add: I am a man - married with the two best most well balanced kids in the world. I love my wife to bits. I had been playing game of war for about 14 months I guess but stopped 2 days ago. I decided to stop because I suddenly realised my family were actually expecting me to play all the time. I had become a fixture they worked around. They didn't expect me to join in with anything. Gow has a counter within the game that allows you to see how many consequective days you've been playing for...538 days I believe my last count. That's every day since Sept 2013 roughly. Four holidays, two Christmas days Ffs.
If your partner or friend tell you they aren't spending on this ask them what is their power in the game...if it's over 300m they have spent money. If it's over 700m they have spent serious money. I was at 1b. And had spent 3-4k. In some ways I am lucky that money came out of my business. My family never suffered financially..
If you suspect your partner / son / friend is spending ask to view the purchase history on iTunes. If they have spent it will be on there as MZ games.
It's possible to buy through paypal on Google play. I'm not certain if itunes gift cards show up.
Be warned this game is all consuming. It's not a game at all. It's a social media exploration tool. Of the worst kind.
It is possible to get a refund if the person playing is considered a minor. Contact Apple via the support store and explain that the purchases were without authorisation. They will refund once so Push for as much as you can !!
Once you have that sell the account. I sold mine for £400.00 plus I got a £300.00 refund.
Then delete the game.
Take back your life. Take back your real life !!!
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This post really helped me with a couple things. My husband and I have been married for almost a year. He's always played video games. I used to as well. We now have a 2 year old, he also has 2 other children. Since Destiny came out, I feel like I've lost my husband. My son is losing his father! He's to the point where he can't even hear if you speak to him while he is playing. I dread leaving our son home with him when I work 12 hour shifts on the weekends now. Yesterday I came home to my walls covered in permanently marker...my husband couldn't even tell me what he was doing when it all happened. Our marriage is falling apart..because of video games.
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i know exactly how you feel! i swear i wrote this, whether you see this or not, i don't know. I am at end of rope, our daughter will be 4 in 2 days and he honestly does not care if we are here, he doesn't want anyone to visit, even his own family, i feel like we are bothering him, i did not get married to be a mother figure, i want a husband
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My husband is 50 years old and he plays video games non stop. He works 40 hours a week and he plays game a about the same time. We never go anywhere. On the weekend he wakes up, gets coffee and he is off to kill people on the games. I lost my mom last year and I told him that I feel empty and about ten minutes later he said he was off to play games. I feel discussed and hurt inside. He is never there unless he wants to have sex. I don't know how much more I can take of this. If I am going to be lonely I might as well be alone.
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Yes!!! My husband plays Game of War and has the Line app. He's been talking to multiple women on the Line app and on Game of War. He spends hundreds of dollars a week on the game. I confronted him about it a couple weeks ago after I found screen shots of conversations on Line with him and other women and he laid his hands on me. I'm about to give birth in a few weeks. I had to go to the hospital to see if my daughter in me was alright, and by law they had to report the abuse. My husband has a warrant for his arrest for putting bruises on me and doesn't even know because the police said he'll probably go after me if he knows how much trouble he's in. He lost me, our 3 sons, and the chance to be involved with our unborn daughter's birth. His health is declining, he's
not paying bills, is getting written up at work all the time for showing up 5-6 hours late due to playing all night and is probably going to loose his job. He's slowly hitting rock bottom and everything in life over Game of War.
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Read what I wrote about my husband playing Game of War. He has ruined his life over this game.
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My husband is ruining his life over Game of War. He's suffering financially, about to be homeless, arrested, and his is health declining. He lost me (his partner of 15 years, married 10 years), our 3 sons, and a chance to be there at my delivery of our first daughter in a few weeks. Everything is being lost in life over Game of War.
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