I am 35 years old & married to a wonderful husband. We've been TTC for almost 2 years. We have looked into adoption of a small child, and the cost is around $30,000 a child (We'd love to share our home with about 4). I used Depro Provera about 7 times, the last being about 8 years ago. Money limits me, so I tend to talk in finance. In not immediately getting pregnant, I have been so despondant. I have struggled through fear of what I'd find out, I've not known where to go, so I thought i'd post to maybe help someone who has felt the same way.
Here is what i'm doing:
Vitafusion Pre-Natal Gummies (45 Day supply (90ct) $13.00 Kroger) Yum cause I hate Horse-Pills
Gynecologist scheduled HSG to determine that my fallopian tubes are open about 6 months ago (Both are) ($3300.00--Blue Cross wouldn't pay a dime, since its for fertility)
Sperm Test (was good) $110.00
I am in my first round of Clomid (Gynecologist prescribed) $9 a round at Wal-Mart
I had a vaginal ultrasound last week, which determined that i'm ovulating from Clomid (Done by Gynecologist) $210.00
and I go in 4 days for blood work to test my progestrone levels.
Basically, my gynecologist is walking with me through my first month to see what my body is doing.
I have hope, but if we're not pregnant in these next cycles, I will work harder and more to save for an adoption. Even if we have our own babies, we want to add one by adoption anyway, so that child can become part of our beautiful family.--My husband has so much to offer, that I just cannot let a child be cheated out of such a good daddy. --I figure within the next few years, we'd have enough $$ to start the long process, and continue working to pay for the rest. I think if we're not pregnant for 2012, I'm taking my husband to Rome (On a 3rd cruise) because even if God does not bless me with children of my own, I have been blessed with the best companion in the world.
Hope everything works out for you. :)