Hi, I'm a 17 year old uncircumcised male, and I have normal sex drive, no difficulty in achieving erections, am a virgin, and I'm going through puberty normally.
The only problem is that when I masturbate by stroking my erect penis (and rubbing it against stuff!), I don't feel any pleasure that I'm supposed to feel, in order to reach orgasm. I just go on stroking it for like 10-15 minutes and when I get bored I stop. I have never reached an orgasm manually, at any point in my life. Still, i know that my body is mature enough to produce sperm because I have nocturnal emissions about twice a week, and during these sex dreams, I can actually feel my penis ejaculating, and the sensation feels amazing, of course.
Whether this problem is physical or psychological beats me. I wonder if it could be psychological because I am quite socially awkward and get nervous around people (especially girls), but then again it could be a physical defect because my parents say when I was only a few months old I had a urinary tract infection and I had had to have some kind of injection to the penis. Could the doctors have accidentally severed a nerve or something that causes the pleasure? This really bothers me because I can never satisfy my sexual urges, which makes me quite desperate all the time, disturbing my concentration at school etc. And it also lowers my self-esteem because I won't be able have kids in the future, so I don't have a girlfriend, and usually avoid getting into relationships. Can someone please help me here? :( because I'm really desperate for an answer...NOTE- Strangely enough, I can give myself an erection by touching my penis but after it becomes erect, the feeling is just empty and blank...
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I really don't think its from the procedure because you can ejaculate when your sleep. The stress that your putting on your self can be the reason your not able to reach an orgasm... when your sleep your fully relaxed an not stressing about it. Let go of the stress an it should help.
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