I am 22 years old. I started masturbation when i was 12. It was started unknowingly, and i used to masturbate in lying on the bed and keeping the face down(so that my penis rubs on bed). I get good erection and ejaculation occurs within 3 or 4 minutes when i masturbate in this position. But now i came to know that masturbating in such a position is harmful and is not recommended. So i started doing it with my hand sitting or standing. But i am not that much satisfied bcoz it takes long time to get the good erection and to ejaculate. I really want to change my method of masturbation, but it seems difficult for me. Another issue is that my penis is not circumcised, so the when i started masturbation using hand, i get a small irritation when i touch the head of the penis my pulling my skin back. When the penis is in the erected stage, still the foreskin covers over the head. Will it become a problem for sex ? I haven't had sex with any girl yet. :$
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Simply put, no it won't. Not everyone's foreskin is of the same length, yours just happens to be longer than average. Not sure what to say about the feeling, though.
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hi frndz i also used to masterbate on lying on bed may i know what problem will come:!:
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OK, let's get one thing straight !
The best stimulation for the penis is a tight, well-lubricated vagina.
Technically, you're torturing yourself needlessly.
I tried the belly-down method too once. It feels dumb. What are you trying to do, screw the bed?
My two best positions, lying relaxed on my back and, on my knees. I usually begin lying and finish enacting a wild doggy style.
Here's where your real problem lies friend: masturbation simulates intercourse.
If you never had proper sex with a woman (or a man), your biggest sex organ, THE BRAIN, does not understand what the hell do you want from it? Basically, you're just rubbing it. The penis does react but it's the brain that does the background work.
Do you really want your future self-love sessions to be interesting and satisfying and all those centerfold girls and porn vixens to actually mean something to your brain?
Well, then cast all pointless shame aside and get jiggy with a vagina, or even anus.
Don't stress about looks or car or cash.
I'm sure there is a girl that digs you.
If not, there must be a buddy of yours that knows some.... S.L.U. t hat can start it up for you. Some girls are actually attracted to being a virgin guy's first lay. The internet can do a lot about connecting you to such girls. Just be honest and careful. The best you can do is get your STD status medically checked so she has nothing to complain about. A bottle of vermouth shows her you're a gentleman of fine tastes.
IF NOT (I suppose you do have a job), a man's got to do what a man's got to do. Seek "professional" help.
The Dutch aren't the most civilised people on Earth for nothing, you know? They actually have state payed sex professionals for patients that can't leave the house for medical reasons. Hormonal balance matters to them.
If, by any chance, you're a student and still don't get layed, I'll strangle you myself. Go to a damn party once in a while and dance some girl.
Or just post in Personal Adds : "22 YO virgin guy with acute agoraphobia seeks girl to begin sex life". Trust me, it works !
Plenty of bleeding hearts out there. Just don't expect any Cinderella and please be respectfull. She's giving you her best help, you don't have to marry her, and yes, you could be a gentleman and whip some hot milk with croissants in the morning. It'll really make her happy. Don't even think of asking hwer to go down on you and if, you lucky dog, she does, let her do the fine work, don't be an A-hole and man-handle her head. Ask for a 69 if you're a good guy.
Solution given.
After this, you'll know exactly what to simmulate in your single-sessions
Best arrowser in the world is p***y smell. Makes an animal out of a heterosexual guy. You'll be able to use it's memory for better lone uppers.
Foreskin. Forget all the modern fashion whith having it cut. God ain't stupid, he put it there for good reason. Escalation is the reason.
A good sex session begins with soft, delicate touches and finishes with sparks and fireworks.
Unbeknownst to many, foreskin makes you a more delicate lover because the sensations are distributed differently. You don't just get straight to the rough and tumble of the more sensitive parts. Be proud of your foreskin.
Circumcision is for Jews, Islam and snobs. It's a fab.
And you can easily hold it peeled back with two fingers at the base of the shaft. No biggie.
If you get irritated it means two things:
a) you're rubbing it like trying to polish a steel pipe with sandpaper.
b) you're not using lube.
Experiencing a vagina will teach you everything about what the penis actually needs. Hard to explain. American Pie movie comes close. But if your mom catches you with your manhood in her food you'll have hell to pay.
Just remembered a great way to get the general idea without an actual girl.
I would give a link, but that's direct product advertising and I'm not sure I can get away with that.
The gismo is called "Fleshlight". Google it. Like Flashlight, but imlpying FLESH. It's around 70 bucks, not the end of the pocket, it's an artificial vagina made of good silicone, that mimicks a real vagina. It's shaped like a flashlight and has a screw-on cap. It comes in a lot of versions and it is tu be used with lube, that is if you don't want to feel like humping your grandma's latex hot water bottle.
For best results use a warming lube (KY's got one), I don't believe at 22YO you still got issues with buying lube and condoms from the store.
You could also keep the silicone part in warm-to-hot (NOT boiling) water for 20 minutes.
From five feet avay you'd swear it's an electric torch if you feel particularly shy.
Does masturbation interfere with actual intercourse? Many will say no. IT DOES ! A LOT !
Firstly, if you've just "cleaned the pipes" a couple of times, the body will take longer to respond to sex and you'll last a bit longer in the girl. It's not the miracle method some say. It buys you some extra 10 minutes at best. Tantric training makes you "The Humpborg", not some previous ejaculation.
Second, let's think about the goal of it. In intercourse you want to last long and drive the girl crazy, while getting up to an explosive climax. In masturbation, you want to get to a decent-to-great climax fast and be done with it. You don't want to rub it for half an hour. It's unhealthy by abrasion.
See ? Opposite goals. So, if you get used with the hand, you'll need a bit of training with a girl to not finish like a passing bullet.
The vagina might seem dellicate, but it will unavoidably catch your penis off-guard the first time. You won't believe how fast you'll climax.
Forget about the dumb machos bragging about how they lasted for five hours their first time. They're full of it !
Plus, all these wondermen I have ever encountered never had basic knowledge like where's the G-spot, what's a clit, how do you use it, what's the right sequence for stimulating a girl's vulva. You want them dumbstruck ? Ask about the A-zone (a-spot) and about the C.A.T. method. Then you'll see how "macho" they really are.
They basically just got lucky with some poor girl that was attracted to their immage, and got a bad lay in the process.
Ask them about the role of afterplay. That kills'em everytime.
Knowledge is power, my friend, not a big schlong.
In a nutshell:
Lube (warming, waterbased);
Fleshlight or girl;
Study, study, study.
And stop trying weird positions like belly-down, sitting, squatting, or what-not. Just immagine you're actually doing it with a girl (or guy).
May you have countless hours of self-enjoyment !
Be well.
Felix.
The best stimulation for the penis is a tight, well-lubricated vagina.
Technically, you're torturing yourself needlessly.
I tried the belly-down method too once. It feels dumb. What are you trying to do, screw the bed?
My two best positions, lying relaxed on my back and, on my knees. I usually begin lying and finish enacting a wild doggy style.
Here's where your real problem lies friend: masturbation simulates intercourse.
If you never had proper sex with a woman (or a man), your biggest sex organ, THE BRAIN, does not understand what the hell do you want from it? Basically, you're just rubbing it. The penis does react but it's the brain that does the background work.
Do you really want your future self-love sessions to be interesting and satisfying and all those centerfold girls and porn vixens to actually mean something to your brain?
Well, then cast all pointless shame aside and get jiggy with a vagina, or even anus.
Don't stress about looks or car or cash.
I'm sure there is a girl that digs you.
If not, there must be a buddy of yours that knows some.... S.L.U. t hat can start it up for you. Some girls are actually attracted to being a virgin guy's first lay. The internet can do a lot about connecting you to such girls. Just be honest and careful. The best you can do is get your STD status medically checked so she has nothing to complain about. A bottle of vermouth shows her you're a gentleman of fine tastes.
IF NOT (I suppose you do have a job), a man's got to do what a man's got to do. Seek "professional" help.
The Dutch aren't the most civilised people on Earth for nothing, you know? They actually have state payed sex professionals for patients that can't leave the house for medical reasons. Hormonal balance matters to them.
If, by any chance, you're a student and still don't get layed, I'll strangle you myself. Go to a damn party once in a while and dance some girl.
Or just post in Personal Adds : "22 YO virgin guy with acute agoraphobia seeks girl to begin sex life". Trust me, it works !
Plenty of bleeding hearts out there. Just don't expect any Cinderella and please be respectfull. She's giving you her best help, you don't have to marry her, and yes, you could be a gentleman and whip some hot milk with croissants in the morning. It'll really make her happy. Don't even think of asking hwer to go down on you and if, you lucky dog, she does, let her do the fine work, don't be an A-hole and man-handle her head. Ask for a 69 if you're a good guy.
Solution given.
After this, you'll know exactly what to simmulate in your single-sessions
Best arrowser in the world is p***y smell. Makes an animal out of a heterosexual guy. You'll be able to use it's memory for better lone uppers.
Foreskin. Forget all the modern fashion whith having it cut. God ain't stupid, he put it there for good reason. Escalation is the reason.
A good sex session begins with soft, delicate touches and finishes with sparks and fireworks.
Unbeknownst to many, foreskin makes you a more delicate lover because the sensations are distributed differently. You don't just get straight to the rough and tumble of the more sensitive parts. Be proud of your foreskin.
Circumcision is for Jews, Islam and snobs. It's a fab.
And you can easily hold it peeled back with two fingers at the base of the shaft. No biggie.
If you get irritated it means two things:
a) you're rubbing it like trying to polish a steel pipe with sandpaper.
b) you're not using lube.
Experiencing a vagina will teach you everything about what the penis actually needs. Hard to explain. American Pie movie comes close. But if your mom catches you with your manhood in her food you'll have hell to pay.
Just remembered a great way to get the general idea without an actual girl.
I would give a link, but that's direct product advertising and I'm not sure I can get away with that.
The gismo is called "Fleshlight". Google it. Like Flashlight, but imlpying FLESH. It's around 70 bucks, not the end of the pocket, it's an artificial vagina made of good silicone, that mimicks a real vagina. It's shaped like a flashlight and has a screw-on cap. It comes in a lot of versions and it is tu be used with lube, that is if you don't want to feel like humping your grandma's latex hot water bottle.
For best results use a warming lube (KY's got one), I don't believe at 22YO you still got issues with buying lube and condoms from the store.
You could also keep the silicone part in warm-to-hot (NOT boiling) water for 20 minutes.
From five feet avay you'd swear it's an electric torch if you feel particularly shy.
Does masturbation interfere with actual intercourse? Many will say no. IT DOES ! A LOT !
Firstly, if you've just "cleaned the pipes" a couple of times, the body will take longer to respond to sex and you'll last a bit longer in the girl. It's not the miracle method some say. It buys you some extra 10 minutes at best. Tantric training makes you "The Humpborg", not some previous ejaculation.
Second, let's think about the goal of it. In intercourse you want to last long and drive the girl crazy, while getting up to an explosive climax. In masturbation, you want to get to a decent-to-great climax fast and be done with it. You don't want to rub it for half an hour. It's unhealthy by abrasion.
See ? Opposite goals. So, if you get used with the hand, you'll need a bit of training with a girl to not finish like a passing bullet.
The vagina might seem dellicate, but it will unavoidably catch your penis off-guard the first time. You won't believe how fast you'll climax.
Forget about the dumb machos bragging about how they lasted for five hours their first time. They're full of it !
Plus, all these wondermen I have ever encountered never had basic knowledge like where's the G-spot, what's a clit, how do you use it, what's the right sequence for stimulating a girl's vulva. You want them dumbstruck ? Ask about the A-zone (a-spot) and about the C.A.T. method. Then you'll see how "macho" they really are.
They basically just got lucky with some poor girl that was attracted to their immage, and got a bad lay in the process.
Ask them about the role of afterplay. That kills'em everytime.
Knowledge is power, my friend, not a big schlong.
In a nutshell:
Lube (warming, waterbased);
Fleshlight or girl;
Study, study, study.
And stop trying weird positions like belly-down, sitting, squatting, or what-not. Just immagine you're actually doing it with a girl (or guy).
May you have countless hours of self-enjoyment !
Be well.
Felix.
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to felix ;
how would u like to have sex with a 14 yr old girl just by ur profile u sound kinda cute 8)
sincerely
not very good looking girl 14
how would u like to have sex with a 14 yr old girl just by ur profile u sound kinda cute 8)
sincerely
not very good looking girl 14
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'it causes urethral canal problem ie., when you pass your urine, it might split every where. Its an serious health related issue which i recently knew. It causes a fracture on urethra and to recover surgery is the way for it. change the way, I too need to change.
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Why you have not used Fleshjack instead of Masturbation. Trust me, It gives you more pleasure.
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