Why dont you have sex in the shower? and this way she wont think you notice that she peed on you because there is alot of water and it could possibly get her off more and get her mind taken off things!
i had the same thing exactly... the pain during sex and then having to pee and not being able to go. turned out to be a urinary track infection
Hey yeah I'm experiencing the same problem. After my boyfriend fingers me I feel the urge to pee but nothing happens and I get like a burning pain. It's annoying, but i don't know how to stop it, i think that next time when it happens I should just relax more
Well everytime I have sex with my husband I feel the urgue to pee but when I go to the restroom nothing comes out so I go back and we keep at it. Then I have to go again. I get so fed up with having to keep bothering him with the same thing over and over again that after a couple of times I just stay and hold back because of fear that I might pee on h I mean that would be so embarrasing right? But ive been reading all of these posts amd you guys have givin me the guts to just keep going and see what happens from there(: thank you!!
This peeing sensation is most likely caused by the woman about to ejaculate. Female ejaculation is NOT urine. Medical experts do not know what or where the fluid comes from. I believe that female ejaculation is caused by simulation of the G spot, which coincidentally medical experts argue exists or not. The G spot is located about two inches into the vagina on the upper wall. If you or your partner want to explore, insert a finger or two and make a "come hither" motion with your fingers. You should be able to feel a rough or bumpy patch of skin. If this spot is rubbed with constant pressure you may start to feel the urge to pee. This is because the female ejaculate is stored in the urinary bladder. If you or your partner feel this sensation I would recommend putting a folded towel under her, relax and see what happens. Most women who have G spot orgasms agree that they are the strongest type of orgasm you can have.
If you do pee during sex, talk to your partner and make sure you both know that it is nothing to be embarrassed about. I read one woman's comment about having to pee a lot after child birth. I would recommend, after urination, flex the muscles like you would if you were trying to stop peeing. Do this 10-12 times after each urination and you should begin to get back control of your urination. If not consult a doctor.
I also would like to mention that not all women that can ejaculate feel the sensation of peeing. The first time I personally experienced ejaculating I didn't know I had until I got up and my boyfriend told me what had happened. Luckily he had had a previous girlfriend who could do this so it wasn't a big surprise or deal to him. I can only ejaculate when me uses his fingers, not during actual intercourse so we switch back and forth a lot. Also just because a girl ejaculates doesn't mean she's having an orgasm.
If you do pee during sex, talk to your partner and make sure you both know that it is nothing to be embarrassed about. I read one woman's comment about having to pee a lot after child birth. I would recommend, after urination, flex the muscles like you would if you were trying to stop peeing. Do this 10-12 times after each urination and you should begin to get back control of your urination. If not consult a doctor.
I also would like to mention that not all women that can ejaculate feel the sensation of peeing. The first time I personally experienced ejaculating I didn't know I had until I got up and my boyfriend told me what had happened. Luckily he had had a previous girlfriend who could do this so it wasn't a big surprise or deal to him. I can only ejaculate when me uses his fingers, not during actual intercourse so we switch back and forth a lot. Also just because a girl ejaculates doesn't mean she's having an orgasm.
hey im having the same problem!! my boyfriend knows a lot about it and tells me to just relax and let it out but i seriously cant, i dont know why!! the pee feeling just gets worse and im having difficulty releasing, i cant figure out what im doing wrong. maybe im not relaxed? i dont know because i seriously have tried this, ur all so lucky for being able to experience relief from this pain :-( i have to keep trying thou, im determined!!!
I have been having the same feeling when being stimulated by my boyfriend. I've been holding it back because I'm afraid to actually urinate on him and on his bed. He has told me to relax many times, I try but I find it hard to do so. The feeling is an intense one and it feels amazing but I am unable to relax.
Any advice on how to relax?
Any advice on how to relax?
I used to have that same problem, but my husband understood.. sometimes thats what happens when we are about to come! its completely normal, just let yourself go! Know that its NORMAL.. and i KNOW its WEIRD.. but once you just LET EVERYTHING GO... thats when the best sh*t happens!! :)
when me and my bf are having sex its hurts my insides really bad sometime's and we have to stop im not sure on what's worng but i think it could be where i had a baby 7 months ago but idk and help on this one?
Hey, i am having the same issues with my girlfriend so i thought i would read up on the subject and this e=whole site has been extremly helpful, going to try it out the next time we are alone but i just wanted to say this is my favorite post so Thank you proud owner of these words haha ;)
For the love of god! It's not the g-spot. Some women when new to sex will get this uncomfortable sensation of needing to urinate. I get it and trust me, it's not me about to have an orgasm, one thrust does not make me want to cum. It's could be just the unwanted friction, try a little more lube. Her muscles are also probably really tense but the more she learns to relax them the less she'll feel this sensation. If it doesn't get any better than there could be an underlying issue and she should go see a gynaecologist.
where can you buy the gel
U could b hitting her pee spot. Some couples really njoy for her to pee on him. ( This is called: Golden Shower ) omce she gets there, tell her to turn loose, tpush jt till she can pee n shwer you. ( If u guys want to try this )
That's not peeing it's called squirting
I have the same exact thing happen to me, same with having intercourse