Hi there, earlier today I was in bed with my girlfriend. I had fingered her, except this time I was a little vigourus, and afterwards I had noticed blood on the fingers I had inserted, but nowhere else.
Now, my girlfriend is still a virgin, and I am very aware that her hymen is still intact, leaving me with two likely deductions; Me having somehow broken her hymen (which, in all honestly, I never thought I could do with just my fingers), or her bieng on her period. However, I know that she would never let me go down there while she was on her period, and she said she has had none of her regular period symptoms before hand. The other issue was that there was very little blood, and she didin't feel pain at all. I know the amount of blood and pain varies between girls when a hymen is broken, but I'm still not too sure what went on, and neither is she.
I dont think she has checked properly, but she has said the bleeding stopped not too long ago, so I think it had bled out a little afterwards, but I dont know how severe it was.
Really we both just want to know what exactly happened, and we would like any other opinions on what the cause of this could be.
Now, my girlfriend is still a virgin, and I am very aware that her hymen is still intact, leaving me with two likely deductions; Me having somehow broken her hymen (which, in all honestly, I never thought I could do with just my fingers), or her bieng on her period. However, I know that she would never let me go down there while she was on her period, and she said she has had none of her regular period symptoms before hand. The other issue was that there was very little blood, and she didin't feel pain at all. I know the amount of blood and pain varies between girls when a hymen is broken, but I'm still not too sure what went on, and neither is she.
I dont think she has checked properly, but she has said the bleeding stopped not too long ago, so I think it had bled out a little afterwards, but I dont know how severe it was.
Really we both just want to know what exactly happened, and we would like any other opinions on what the cause of this could be.
Hi: You broke her hymen! ANY penetration can break a hymen, it is just a think piece of skin between the base of the vagina walls. Very easily done. NOW the question is this? I am glad she is still a virgin, and I hope you both REALLY understand the consequences of that. That been said, there are many reasons why girls/women want their hymens intact. So if it is for religious/cultural reasons, you guys have a little problem. She will require - when she is ready to marry of course - to have her hymen reattached. So if this is the case, please be careful when doing foreplay OK? And just know that you have to be very careful when you are "fooling around" because it can quickly lead to a progression OR being physically hurt e.g. scratches, infection, injury to the vagina/vulva etc. And if you guys still continue to be this intimate, use a lubricant on your fingers, and make sure your nails are cut short and she doesn't get hurt down there OK? Be healthy and wise!