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First Time and I didn't have an erection

By Sareon24258 | 230 posts, last post
Kate Smith answered this What Causes Erection Problems? Should You Be Worried About Erectile Dysfunction?
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Get som viagra....it helps your way up ti heaven
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Guest92

I'm so glad to hear I'm not alone with this. She was an escort and I was a virgin. I would look at pcitures of nude women and have no problem getting a boner and loved to jack off. She was cutand had a nice body but I still had a hard time f*****g her. We first started feellng each other. I started to get it up there but only like half way. She started jerking me off and it was almost all the way up. I put on a condom and wasn't doing it right. She had to tell me how to do it. I felt emabarrassed and by the time i went to stick it in it wasn't as hard. I sucked on her tits and felt her ass and she jacked me off but it still wasn't right. We tried a few diffent positions. It was best when she was riding me but still wasn't great. Maybe I'm not a sex type a guy and more into jacking off for some reason or maybe it was just because i was nervous, felt awkward and unconfortable. She was saying it could of been because she was an escort and I needed to feel an emotional connection even though i jack off to random hot women

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Guest


My ex got it up just find by barely even trying and she was less attractive than this girl
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Guest


Same thing happened to me yesterday ... the thing was working perfect, i had a full erection when dry humping but as soon as we got into it and it was the TIME, it just disappeared ... and i started stroking it ... i guess it tried for 5-8 mins but couldn't get any erection ... she dint help at all ... rather her laughter made me more nervous ... it sucked ... so f*****g embarassing .. but good to know i am not alone ...

Need suggestions what if i cant do it the second time too :(
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Guest

Just happened to me. My gf won't answer my texts now..... I love her so much and we were so excited.... And I let her down....
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Guest


She's a hoe leave her and find another girl...
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obscure seaplane

These things unfortunately happen and they are basically all mental. You get nervous about something and then it's all down hill once your gf starts complaining or laughing it makes your more nervous and self conscious which is almost a steel trap as far as getting an erection. Because erections are about 90% mental and if you can't focus then it's almost impossible to maintain an erection my advice would be to relax and then talk to your gf about it and explain to her that it was nothing tondo with her and see what she says. If she is understanding then it shouldn't be a big problem the next time you try and do things. Does this make sense?
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Guest

Not to repeat wht basically everyone said but fckkkk this site is awesome!! Im having the same problem. Where my first time we were doing different stuff for at least an hour- an hour and half and then when she was ready I lost my erection cuz of the stress and condom... happend again for the second time becasue I kept remembering what happend and wasnt fully concentrated.. anyone has any tips/advices. PLZZZZ help.. scares the sh*t out of me!

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obscure seaplane

Hey there did you read my post above ? It explained it all
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All over the world.
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Guest

Buy more condoms right now man. If you think «oh god I only have two chances tonight» then you just wasted these two chances by getting nervous about it.
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Guest

Dudes I'm a 25 year old bisexual male. I have the highest sex drive of anyone I know. I'm not bragging coz trust me I wish it was the opposite way. But I couldn't even tell you how many folk I've had sex with. Male and female. However only a couple years ago I started having problems getting hard when I was having a one night stand. Then I sort of started being a proper s*** to see what was wrong. Turns out the more attracted to the person I am the more I struggle. It's the pressure that gets to me. Once I've met someone a few times and have a few fombles then all it takes is a kiss and I'm rock. But first time it ain't going no where. No matter what u do. Hope it helps. Oh and btw. Sometimes I'm better if I've had a couple wanks that day than none at all. It's still sensitive and all that
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Lol, this just happened to me and the first thing i did when i came home was looking it up on internet. Feels great that im not alone with this problem. I'm pretty sure it's called Performance Anxiety, and will dissapear within time. We still did it with my half-erect penis, but it kept sliding out.. Does anyone actually know an easy solution to this?
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AksGow333366


same thing happened to me in the first time sex with the prostitute.
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stillavirgin101

I'm so happy I found this not even joking. I met this girl today and I was so phsyced that I was finally going to have sex and lose my V-plates. Anyway the same thing happened, we were kissing and I fingered her, I licked her out as well, all was going well until I got the condom and realised that I didn't have a boner. This was really unlikely for me because I get them all of the time when I don't need them. In the end she went home and I'm still a virgin, I think it's because of nerves. I worried about it so much and got so worked up that I couldn't get hard. She didn't know as I please her with fingers and oral but I'm still so annoyed.
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