First Time and I didn't have an erection

The same thing happened to me ..... Plus my gf broke up with me because of that .... I feel really bad .... But thank u guys u made me feel better

So i was just roaming around at mumbai... and i found a prostitute. We fixed the rate and i went ather place. Initially she was so was cute and nice so i imagined about a nice sex as i watched in porn films. But when we reach there.... HOLY c**p the place was so dirty and sticky, near the bed there is a open bathroom where whores used to piss. Then she came, removed her lower dress and said.. Start and i was like what the f**k, then she showed a big scar of operation on her stomach. She didnt open her boobs. And there it happens... i was so shocked that i didn't get erection. At last i gave up also i have to give 1200 rs. for nothing.... Very bad experience. 

i have never had this problem till tonight even my first time i got an erection and was ready to go again not long after finishing. although it was the first time with this girl.

Sometimes i dont last too long and sometimes i do, so i had libido boosters just incase but i decided against it and instead i got the trojan fire and ice condoms.

i was going pretty long with no problems but after it got hot she started to stop and i didnt even realise i got soft.

i tried everything but when she gave gave oral i was fine everytime.

So i was reading all these and the most common response was nerves so i thought about it and i realised i was pretty nervous cuz she let me record and ive never done that before.

so thank you to all your responses im going to wait a while to do that cuz now i know the roblem and have to make it up to her so i dont get left :(

thank you all for the replies now i know it can happen randomly to anybody

Thank you guys so much, I was terrified that I had something wrong with me I'm sure that it will all work out for you guy's, but, for the girl's sake, just relax and don't get angry, she'll understand.

lol, i was laughing out loud while reading all the comments, i was about to sex first time with my virgin gf and she was on top of me, all of sudden it went soft and i was hell embarrassed tht i couldnt do sex anymore. I been in tht stress and only person who is going through knows how bad it is. Then i researched this issue and doctors and other forums suggest tht before going to any treatment try to have viagra or any other same sort of tablet. It is not really a uncommon thing. Can be happen coz of nervousness and other thoughts in mind. I am glad i m not alone in this boat. lol.

Omfg EVERYTHING that you described happened to me a few weeks ago i swear and I wasted 3 condoms also haha. Idk why the next time my time will come around but I'll just have to be less nervous

Yup, fellas, this happens to almost every guy, at some point. It happens to even the most seasoned of sexual veterans. It could be too much stress (either in the moment or other life stress), too much alcohol, masterbating too much, watching too much porn (really ridiculously hot girls desensitize you to regular girls), etc. Honestly, this always happens to me the first few times i'm with a new girl. Happens every single time. For me, it's just nerves, getting used to the girl, making sure she's okay with my penis size (it's not small, just paranoia)....all sorts of things go through my brain. Honestly, after I warm up to her, it's genuinely no problem, and that bad boy goes right up and never comes down. ;) Don't stress yourselves out about it. When you're comfortable, it'll go up. It might take a day, week, or few weeks, but it'll go up.

There's a lot of truth in this. If you really care about the person, and what they think, then you're more likely to overthink things and get nervous. It's because you want the performance to be epic and to satisfy them at an ultimate level. The more I didn't care about the girl, the easier it went up, so actually girls (or guys, in your case) could take it as a compliment. just explain that you really care about their opinion and you're just overthinking it.

thanks guys now it feels like I have found my brothers here,, same thing happened to me ,,I was trying to do sex with her but but the f**k was happening I could get my pennis harder .
now i m worrying about next time

This happens to everyone, so don't worry that it is just you.

It is kind of tough the first few times, but you will try to stay in the moment. Don't think about how hard you need to be. Instead think about what is going on, how sexy your girl is. Have your girl help keep things sexy. If she keeps you turned on and thinking about her, then it will keep you hard.

Putting on the condom also takes away from the moment. What is sexy is if you put the condom on the tip and have her roll it down your penis as you slowly push inside her vagina.

This is happening to myself. It was the second time, but first time sober with the same girl. I haven't really lost my virginity and this was really the first time I went all the way with a girl. However, she has had other sexual partners. I was getting an erection the entire time we were making out. She was on top of me, kissing my neck and everything. This escalated to the bedroom where we both ended up cuddling, making out more and with absolutely no clothes on. We started with foreplay, but once the time came for intercourse, I lost my erection almost as soon as penetration (no condom). She was tight so there was no way I couldn't have had intercourse unless I had a raging erection. She said she was nervous every-time she did this and I was kinda nervous as well. After that, I couldn't sustain a decent enough erection, especially with a condom. I'm just freaking out and frustrated. I like this girl and I wanna go all the way with her, but this is the most embarrassing experience of my life. I don't know what to do.

Oh sh*t I feel reliefed same happened to me I was all freaked out until I saw a lot of comments and same experience I think I was nervous to even tough I didn't admitted
good luck next time mate

Hi all, don't worry friends. I had this problem, the thing is you might need to look at some pics or just wait a while, cos last night I had this problem but 1130 boom, half hour of the best time of my life... First time. Just take my advice and rub your jiggy on to her... It will maintain and then enter and once in you will get vacuumed... Best feeling ever. I am a worrier also but last night I pulled it off. Best wishes to all x

That exact thing happened to me

Well this just happened to me yesterday, I was so soft that I wasted two condoms. Good thing that it was a prostitute and no someone closer, hope next time things work out with a different girl and get to finally have penetrative sex.