First Time and I didn't have an erection

It's happened to me to
I'm afraid that's the same sh*t will happen in the second time , so embarrassed

That last sentence, "just hope you don't sink bro" describes exactly what happened to me after my 1st, 2nd, and 3rd unsuccessful attempts. It's called a negative feedback loop, reinforced with increasing anxiety from each failed encounter, followed by avoidance because there's no positive examples to draw on. It's the only thing I know of that the harder you try to succeed the more assured you are of failure.

Very reboosting site for me since i have faced the same problem 2 weeks backs. i don't have a girl friend but am eager to loose my virginity. i am 22 now & i have waited enough .i thought now time has arrived to become a man so i shared my concern with my colleague then he advised me to hire a hooker and i have left with no choice either. two weeks back i went to brothel and selected 1 girls(of-course i went with my colleagues choice because she was skinny). i went on to kiss her for 10 mins and smooch her for another 10 mins now suddenly she says that my time is over and i need to leave bed in next 5-10 mins, i was shocked and i began to erect my penis as soon as possible although i failed to do so. she gave hand-job for a while even that did not work. she starting saying make it fast she have more clients lined up, after 10 mins she starting abusing me calling me impotent bottom line of the story i was unable to erect my penis and she left the room. my first sex was a nightmare to me. i thought iam impotent but after running through the page i came to know that i was not only guy who faced erection dysfunction during loosing virginity LOL. we all have similar kind of experience and i think i might be nervous and i also had masturbated 1 hour before my sex.

Any f**** solution?

same thing happend to me , felt like killing myself

Damn yarrrrr ,,,, BS ,,,, same thing happened today with me ,,, first sex ..... Or else i can say no sex ....

Fking tell me about it! Its just ridiculous!

When I first tried to I was the same, I was nervous and felt sick. We tried again a couple hours after and I was fine. You just need the confidence

My same problem i dont love the girl but i want have sex and lose my virginity . I have done all the foreplay, kissing and all but no erection . Its my nervousness i know . Or do i have low testosterone level , i do not feel turned on sometimes but when i wake up in morning i have full erection . A solution Please

This happened to me last night and i was so worried. Now i know i shouldn't be because it was my first time. We'll try a lot of foreplay before trying to have sex the next time. I just couldn't get a damn boner.

Glad I found this site... helped a lot. Tried to do it with my girlfreind last night (for the first time for me). We started of kissing and my erection was fully up, then when we started to undress I started to get nervous and I realised that I was about to have some form of intercorse and it went from hard to soft rapidly... when she started to go down on me she realised it wasn't hard and then we started kissing and grinding on each other but it wouldn't go up... she tried for a while doing a lot of different things but... nothing. We then stoped and spooned and it started to go up when I started to relax... when she then realised she went down on me.... it was hard for abit but I didn't feel it was gonna blow so I stressed and it went down again.... worried it will happen again

Am having the same problem as you what do you recommend

Bro... Same problem with me today... I tried first time for sex with a hooker .... She tried Nd I also tried but she said khada hee ni ho rha.. Means she said u r not getting any erection we tried 20 mins almost but... I couldn't do anything m also thinking m impotent but now I think m not its was first time.. Nd also that was not my Gf... She was unknown Nd didn't giving any support to me.. To do it... I was also feeling uncomfortable but at last I slept on her back with my pennis touching on her ass bt no erection nly I gave my sperm.....

Bro... Same problem with me today... I tried first time for sex with a hooker .... She tried Nd I also tried but she said khada hee ni ho rha.. Means she said u r not getting any erection we tried 20 mins almost but... I couldn't do anything m also thinking m impotent but now I think m not its was first time.. Nd also that was not my Gf... She was unknown Nd didn't giving any support to me.. To do it... I was also feeling uncomfortable but at last I slept on her back with my pennis touching on her ass bt no erection nly I gave my sperm.....

Nd also I said her ghar pr toh khada hota hy fir hasne lgi yha pe kya ho gya fir.... Maine kha ab ky bolu bda emberess lg rha tha salary ghar pr toh bhut mza se khada hota hy fir yha ky ho gya.... Nd she also said gussa aaa rha hy muje... Bcoz she was thinking she couldn't turn on me.... But I said it's my fault or nervousness so don't take it up to u Nd if u want then u can go