My Dad has just undergone gall bladder removal surgery. They intended to remove it with keyhole but when they saw the state of the infection they decided to cut him open. We knew that when we saw him the day after we were very likely to be confrunted with a vary spaced out Dad, but I don't think I'd quite been prepared for it. Since then he has seemed slightly more coherant, but has been very bi-polar - you're never quite sure if something you say is going to make him laugh or make him angry. He's been getting more and more aggitated by the constant amount of tubes and wires around him and he is more and more frustrated with not being in control.
Could this be related to depression? Will he be okay again any time soon? What should I expect from the next couple of weeks?
Also, on a side note, his entire stomach seems to have swollen up. Is this just a bi-product of the surgery on it's own, or could it be due to something having gone wrong in the surgery or perhaps just because he can't move around as much as he used to? I've been trapsing the internet in my worry, but would really appreciate some real people answers :-(
I hope this help someone not to completely destroy their life before they get help... If you have never been on antidepressants, start by asking your doctor to test you Vitamin D levels... If you still need to adjust, then look at other options. My doctor kept prescribing antidepressants for me. I believe we live in a culture of pill popping and my doctor believed I wanted pills, when I am actually a person who avoids taking anything like the plague. Docs start serving your patients... To those wonderful doctors who do wonderful work... THANK YOU AND I DO REALIZE YOU EXIST... THANK YOU!!
Marcia in Utah
About 6 weeks ago I had a terrible gall bladder attack, it seem to pass, and even though I still didn't feel very well, I didn't even realize that it was caused by my gall bladder. Then about 3 weeks ago, the pains became so intense I ended up at the hospital in emerg, they right away diagnosed the issue, and even though it meant surgery, I would have done anything to make the pain go away. Well routine surgery that it was suppose to be turned out to be a lot more intense, my gall bladder was gangrenous, and if had been left, another day or 2 it probably would have ruptured, I quickly realized that I was very lucky, because it could have been life threatening. I ended up in the hospital for 6 days, and I have to have a drainage T-Tube in my bile duct for a total of 3 weeks, plus they had to do more surgery to put a stent in the bile duct, to help stop with the leakage and help it to heal. Bottomline is everything seems to be coming along the way it should be, but I just find that as each day goes on, I just feel more tired and depressed. As much as I hate to hear that others are suffering with the same depression from the gall bladder surgery, it makes me realize how common this seems. I think I will speak with my family doctor to see what options there are to treat this. I thank everybody for sharing their experience, it has helped me immensely!
My girlfriend had her Gallbladder removed 2 years ago and she has not been herself since. We have been trying to watch what we eat and keep healthy active lives but lately she has been depressed out of the norm. She would not talk to me about anything, but finally last night she broke down and was telling me that she does not feel like herself and does not know what is happening. It had gotten to bad she quit her job(and these are hard times). She said she has been having bad dreams and also thoughts(even thoughts of breaking up with me). My girlfriend is my world and want to be with her forever, we just are trapped and do not know where to go from here. The Doctors say there is nothing wrong with her. Sad thing is the only time my Girlfriend is back to her old self is when she is on "Handle-bars" or anti-depressants