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The secrets of anal sex/masturbation is personal hygiene, lots of lube, practice with fingers and/or sex toys (vibe or dildo), and patience. The next time you two try anal sex lubricate both your penis and both the inside and outside of her anus. While lubricating her you can spend extra time to "stretch" her anus so that anal sex will be more comfortable. A suggestion for you gf is to "bear down" as though she is taking a bowel movement while you are entering her anus. This bearing down in effect loosens the spincter muscle that holds the anus closed. If the bleeding and soreness continues for more than 5 days, see your physician. Good luck.
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Ok dude. You said she started bleeding from her anus after you put your penis in her but hole. She might have an infection down there. She needs to go see a doctor.
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I'm having the same problem, do you know what it turned out to be for your girlfriend?
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You did the right thing when you put a lot of lube on your penis, but you should start with your fingers or a little toy to relax her anus and loosen it up a little for your penis. I would also suggest, as stated before, to wait for her to heal. You shouldn't EXPECT blood and tearing and pain. When done correctly, there shouldn't be any pain nor blood. It may be a little uncomfortable at first, but with preparation and practice it can feel amazing.
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Anal sex can be painful but its better to play with your anus when you masterbate, i normally stick a finger up my bum when I jerk off at work, i cum much faster so am able to jack one off whilst the guys are away for lunch from their desks, Accenture is a cool place to work as I can watch porn and jerk off while still getting paid.
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When you put the head of your penis in you should leave it there for a few minutes without moving allowing her anus to relax. If she stroked her clit while you are in her she will loosen up more. Going in deep should make no difference at all as once your past the anus muscles there is no contact with anything else further in. You could start with small dildo's untill her sphincter muscles gets used to having something inside her. You could use a small but plug for starters while having regular sex. The above is the right course of action but if your like me I would plunge in to her all the way to the hilt untill she gets used to the pain. If you go in deep enough then lay her on her stomach and pound away.
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It sounds like you hadn't worked at her anus first to get her used to it. It is best to use a finger first with lots of lube on it before inserting your penis. She also needs to be really relaxed before you push it into her. I'd say that you hurt her sphincter which is the muscle that closes her anus up and the itching would be from scratches to her insides that have got infected. There are creams you can get for the itching. If you try again, take lots of time and stretch her with your finger and fingers before inserting your penis into her. And go slow! It does take time and she will get used to it over time if you are patient with her.
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The average penis size is 5 inches, so your "above average" penis isn't the problem because I guarantee your girlfriend has taken a sh*t bigger than your penis at some point in her life. Sorry to be crude, but you men love blaming your gigantic penises for everything. The fear of pain causes people to clench, but if she bears down and theres anything left after here enema /"cleanse" she may just sh*t on you. It's a mood kille, so I would not recommend it. Also, fingers feels nothing like a penis and if you don't keep your nails clean and trimmed you may scratch or tear the skin before your penis ever gets a chance. There are so many products to help numb her ass like analeze, but you still need to go slow. Give her body a chance to adapt. After 3 to 5 minutes her body won't find your huge penis so foreign and she'll relax on her own. Regardless , let her control the pace. A good position for anal is to let her ride you, her hand on your penis so that she has full control over depth and speed. If you do something stupid remember, she has nails and she knows how to use them. None of that whoops, it just went in on its own b.s. If you really want her to enjoy it look up the term "rimming". After a fresh shower together there's nothing like it. Your sex life will explode.
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