I am 14 and I have been seeing a girl now for 5 months exactly, we are very closeand very intimate. she keeps touching my penis and rubbing it, I keep getting scared that if she doest it enough and it rubs against my boxers enough then it may cause me to 'blow my load' and that would lead me to ge embaressed, today when she came over she started to do it again while we were kissing and i felt like was going to ejaculate so I had to go to the bathroom to finish myself off.
The other day aswell she told me to takemy trousers off so she could give me head and I was partially sensible and also partially a twat by declining. I feel this may of messed things up, Hopefully she being the understanding person that she is she may understand and still love me.
I would like to tell her that it is causing me to get sexually aroused, but i don't have a good starting point. Please could someone help me.
Thanks
WAR95
The other day aswell she told me to takemy trousers off so she could give me head and I was partially sensible and also partially a twat by declining. I feel this may of messed things up, Hopefully she being the understanding person that she is she may understand and still love me.
I would like to tell her that it is causing me to get sexually aroused, but i don't have a good starting point. Please could someone help me.
Thanks
WAR95
Well its not like she wants sex as yet so...let her give you head then the least you could do is lick her out. :O
ugh, don't listen to the post above me.
it's totally normal for that sort of thing to turn you on. i'm sure she knows that, and that's why she's doing it.
just be completely honest with her. the next time she tells you thatshe was to do something, or she tries to get you out of your boxers, haha, just tell her how you feel about all of it.
be sensitive so that you don't hurt her feelings,but also be honest. don't rush into anything, especially since you're only 14. i'm 17 and i've turned down my boyfriends many times, it's all in how you choose your words.
and i can't stress it enough, do nottttt do anything you're not ready for. be sensitive, but honest.
good luck with everything! :-)
it's totally normal for that sort of thing to turn you on. i'm sure she knows that, and that's why she's doing it.
just be completely honest with her. the next time she tells you thatshe was to do something, or she tries to get you out of your boxers, haha, just tell her how you feel about all of it.
be sensitive so that you don't hurt her feelings,but also be honest. don't rush into anything, especially since you're only 14. i'm 17 and i've turned down my boyfriends many times, it's all in how you choose your words.
and i can't stress it enough, do nottttt do anything you're not ready for. be sensitive, but honest.
good luck with everything! :-)
ok so just to make sure u to havent had sex? and if u havent u should bring it up in an cool conversation say hey babe u no when u tuch my penis it turns me on and a girl like to no how to turn on her man so then say how ur felling and it might get to hard to to handle but if she loves u shell understand where ur comeing from and that ur not afraid to show how ur feeling!
hopefully this helps! =)
hopefully this helps! =)