Hi. I don't have any friends. Well, I did for a while. My friend used to always call me, and now she never does. And when i DO call her, she always comes up with an excuse to not come sleep over or come over to swim, ect. :'(
It's summer right now, and I haven't talked to anyone. No friends ever email me anymore. I feel so alone, abandoned, hurt, quiet, and too independent. Whenever I was in class at school, I'd always work by myself. There was an odd number in the class, and whenever we had to work in pairs, I was always left out except when someone was abscent, then someone would ask me to be their partner.
I've never really had any friends, and I've tried to be part of the popular crowd, but it didn't work. Nothing I do seems to make anyone like me, not even being myself.
I have no friends at all except for this pen pal that lives in London.
What should I do? I really need a friend. No one ever wants me.
It's summer right now, and I haven't talked to anyone. No friends ever email me anymore. I feel so alone, abandoned, hurt, quiet, and too independent. Whenever I was in class at school, I'd always work by myself. There was an odd number in the class, and whenever we had to work in pairs, I was always left out except when someone was abscent, then someone would ask me to be their partner.
I've never really had any friends, and I've tried to be part of the popular crowd, but it didn't work. Nothing I do seems to make anyone like me, not even being myself.
I have no friends at all except for this pen pal that lives in London.
What should I do? I really need a friend. No one ever wants me.
Can you possible think of a reason why your friends wouldn’t call you and why other people wouldn’t socialize with you? You didn’t mention anything like that!
Do you have a bad odor, have you done or said anything bad to any of your friends or people are you? It is really impossible that no one would speak to you.
Every person finds their match but you need to put and effort and give to get.
There is no need to be in the most popular crowd. You can have fun with your own friends who are not popular at all but are still funny and interesting and smart.
Penpalling is great by the way. I used to do it too, I had over 50 pen pals when I was in high school. Then I grew up and stopped writing. I still dream a mailbox full of letters.
Do you have a bad odor, have you done or said anything bad to any of your friends or people are you? It is really impossible that no one would speak to you.
Every person finds their match but you need to put and effort and give to get.
There is no need to be in the most popular crowd. You can have fun with your own friends who are not popular at all but are still funny and interesting and smart.
Penpalling is great by the way. I used to do it too, I had over 50 pen pals when I was in high school. Then I grew up and stopped writing. I still dream a mailbox full of letters.
I have no clue why.
No, there's no reason I've given them to not talk to me.
I know but I'm shy and it's hard to push yourself.
I know that.
But I'm still really lonely... :'(
No, there's no reason I've given them to not talk to me.
I know but I'm shy and it's hard to push yourself.
I know that.
But I'm still really lonely... :'(
i used to be really shy and not have many friends in middle school, i didnt even like looking people in the eyes because it made me nervous and i didnt talk much, but when i got to high school i convinced myself to be more friendly, i started acting confinent with myself and i have sooooooooo many friends now, i thin confindence is the key, because if you dont have it, you're mostly quiet and may seem kind of boring to others, but when im confindent i can act like myself right away instead of slowly letting people now who i am, i do it right away, then they get to see the real you starting from the beggining, it kind of hard to stop being shy, but once you get past it, its soooo easy to meet people and make friends, sometimes when i see people at school that are sitting alone and have no one, i go up to them and start talking to them, and then ask them questions and then we become friends later on, i would have never done something like that before, but trust me, just get past your shyness and you can make friends really quickly XD
the thing is, in my school, there isn't a lot of kids to be worth trying to get to know them...