GUY MASTERBATION

Perhaps the most common method is to place your hand around your erect penis. As the penis remains erect, move your hand up and down the shaft of your penis gently. This stroking is referred to as "jacking-off." As you "feel" an orgasm building in your groin you can increase both the speed of moving your hand around your penis as well as increasing the tension of your grip. As you become more astute with your "masturbation" technique, you may wish to "jack-off" until you reach the feeling of an impending orgasm and stopping any motion with your hand. If you stop and maintain your grip around your penis this often stops an orgasm. Couples can use this technique to work on premature ejaculation. But while masturbating it used to extend the masturbation session.



My favorite way to masturbate is called "anal masturbation." This is done by inserting an object: sex toy, into your anus to stimulate the numerous nerve endings in the area as well as the prostate. I typically use an 8" by 5" dildo/vibrator. The sex toy has a "suction cup" at the end so that one may attach it to a shower wall, etc. In my case I attach it to a counter top that is the correct height so that I can extend my legs standing up and slowly lower myself onto the dildo/vibrator. Prior to insertion or lowering I use plenty of water soluable lubrication usually AstroLube or KY Jelly on both my anus and the sex toy. Most of the time I use a surgical glove on the hand I use to lubricate my anus so that I guard against any unwanted bacteria and I can usually reach inside my anus to gently lubricate my rectum and "stretch" my anus in anticipation of the dildo/vibrator. A word of caution: this takes lots of time and patience and personal hygiene is the key before and after. If you need to know more about my activity, you may email me with your questions or comments.