Guys: What's it like to have a penis!

Hey, sorry I haven't gotten back to you. Could you give me to maybe this weekend? I'm kinda rushed this week with different projects and my computer was destroyed by my 10 y/o nephew. Sorry if I seemed like I wasn't coming back. I will respond to your questions as soon as possible. And if you're wondering how I'm responding, I'm on a computer at the library. Be back soon once I get my new computer this weekend!

That's ok. Thanks for the courtesy of the explanation.

It's good you are discussing and finding out things in a safe environment. If I can help, let me know.

Take care

Of course. Thank you!

Oh my gosh!! I am soooooooo very sorry for taking so long. The last two weeks have been crazy!
From taking my large, determines my life test, to my computer being lost in shipping, to doing projects and taking finally exams! I am so very sorry! Please forgive me!
1. I reacted kinda normal I guess. It was a bit of a shocker though. The thought of a guy having an erection is arousing, personally.
Yes, wearing a bathing suit does show a cameltoe. Like I said, it is embarrassing, but considering just about everyone at the pool has one, I don't really think about it.
2. Nothing has ever seeped though for me thankfully. Yeah and guess that is a benefit of wearing skirts and dresses though I don't wear them often.
3. It probably would have been better for a girl to be giving a bj to a guy. It was just arousing because I've never seen it. I didn't see the ejaculation because it was time for room check.
I have thought about giving my future husband a bj. But I always wonder if I'll chicken out at the last minute. Only.because you wonder what's all been going on down there. I mean I'd like to try and I want to be able to pleasure my husband in the future. I'd hate for him to be doing all the work if that makes sense. I guess we'd have to shower before hand. Sorry if this made you feel weird or if I offended you.
4. I guess it though it was better because if you get a hand job or you're masturbating, then the foreskin kinda moving over the tip would, I don't know, feel nice maybe.....?
5. Well when I don't, it is quiet annoying. You have this tense feeling and you just have to sit there and it wait for it to go away. Like for example, say your arm itches because you got bit by something. You really want to scratch it, but you know that will only make it worse, so you don't. It's that aggravating feeling.
I have seen a friend of mine masturbate before. He was a guy. We were staying after school to clean and that particular day the cheerleaders were practicing. You can pretty much guess what happened. We're like pretty close, so he was like can I..... I was like knock yourself out. So he kinda sat behind our teacher's desk and went at it. No ejaculation though, thank God.
5. That's a good point. I would probably wait till I was married for a while and then tell him I masturbate. I would actually like for him to tell me if he did so I would know what to do when that special time came around.
6. Sorry i forgot about the pet names. When I was younger, I hated the word vagina, so I would call it a v-j. And instead of penis, I'd call it a penis because penis sounded weird.
7. I don't wear skirts and dresses that often, but when I do, they at least go down to my knees. I like to keep conservative. To make sure no sees up them, don't wear them so high and hang onto them when the wind blows. I would feel uncomfortable if a guy saw up mine. Um a lot of girls let guys see up their skirts/dresses on purpose. It's hardly ever a dare and they do it just turn guys on, but there are those occasions when it is an accident.

Once again, I'm so sorry for keeping you waiting!

I guess I could try for you to let you know how it feels too!

Most of the time, I do wear slips, but sometimes you don't have to based on the design. A lot of skirts have slips made into them. It's never really a problem because most of the time, some skirts do have little slips that cover you up to about mid thigh and the rest is shown.

It's good to hear a younger person's view.

Thank you! I personally believe that discussions like this help be learn without fear of being harassed. This is a safe environment and I'm glad I'm part of it!

Hi Cay

Good to hear from you. I was sure you would reply as soon as you could. I wondered whether you had a problem getting another computer. I hope your exams went well.

1. I expect he thought of a guy having an erection is arousing, although guys can have erections for no obvious reason. That can be embarrassing! At least a bathing suit showing a cameltoe is neutral. As "just about everyone at the pool has one" you are only displaying the fact you are female. Not like a guy's erection!

2. Why don't you wear skirts and dresses often? I think they are very feminine. Healthier as well. It must be nice feeling the air reaching the crotch. I know I do when I can wear shorts. It must be better with a skirt!

3. I would also prefer to see a girl giving a bj to a guy (if I had to see anything). I think it is a good thing to give your  future husband a bj. But what do you think's "been going on down there"? The penis is not dirty (as long as it is washed). I know some guys are not particular about cleanliness, but I can't imagine you with a guy like that. Your thoughts did not make me "feel weird", nor have you "offended" me in any way. Feel free to say whatever you feel.

4. I am sure it would be better with a hand job or masturbating. The foreskin moving over the tip does feel nice. Also there is less need for lube. I think it would also be better with sex for the woman as there is less rough friction.

5. Being unable to release is tough for us guys too. We get the problem of aching testicles - what is often called 'blue balls'. What was it like watching that guy friend of yours masturbate before? I'd like to hear more about that  day the cheerleaders were practicing. You thought I could "pretty much guess what happened", but I would rather not have to guess. Also were you both behind your teacher's desk when he went at it? Why were you thankful there was no ejaculation? Did he pre-cum? Or did he dry orgasm - perhaps because he was young? You have got me curious.

5. I would prefer not to wait till I was married for a while before I was told of her masturbation. As you would like him to tell you if he did, doesn't that work the other way? What do you mean by "I would know what to do when that special time came around"?

6. What other pet names do girls use? I think you mis-typed your pet name for a penis! Guys use other names too. The penis can be a penis, penis or prick; testicles can be balls or nuts; breasts can be tits or boobs.

7. I am impressed your skirts at least go down to your knees. But I always think that when a girl hangs onto her skirt when the wind blows it rather draws attention. So a lot of girls let guys see up their skirts/dresses on purpose? Do they make it that obvious, or do they talk about what they are going to do? I have seen times when it is an accident. That's life!

There was no real need for a big apology for the delay, but thank you anyway.

I look forward to hearing from you again. Do you have any more questions?

I did go commando for a day. It was similar to having loose boxers, but was different. I was conscious of the fact I had to make very sure my zip-fly was done up! Once I did catch the zip on my penis, but I didn't damage myself - but I was extra careful after that. It could have been quite painful. I tried it for a little while with shorts. It was nice having the air get to my genitals, but I was conscious of the potential for accidental display! What would you have thought if you had seen up the shorts (or more!)??

Yes, it would be good if you were willing to try commando for me. I would certainly be interested in your experience.

I just felt the need to apologize considering I said a week and was actually gone for two. I felt like I left you hanging too long. 1. Yeah. It was cool. I don't think many people were paying attention. I bet it is embarrassing for a guy to have an erection. 2. Well I guess I don't wear them often because everyone sees me as that tough girl who wears a jeans all the time, but I like wearing them. I said I was going to start wearing them more. The breeze is quite nice 3. I'm not sure really. I presume guys get infections down below and I guess it's the thought of my husband not telling me I guess. I'd also like him to stay clean. Then again, I feel like my expectations are to high. I really would like to give my husband a bj though. Glad I didn't offend you. 4. Good points, but it doesn't make a difference for me either way. 5. It was a bit interesting and a bit arousing. Like I said, we were staying after school to clean the class. We had to keep going back and forth from the class to the dumpster. We'd pass the cheerleaders every time. Our school cheerleaders are very pretty, if I do say so myself. Perfect hair, perfect body, perfect everything. They were also in extremely short shorts or booty shorts, whatever you like to call them. I guess for him they looked extremely good. They do certain type of dances, like a suggestive, but not too bad, which I guess was very arousing considering they had to keep doing it over and over again. I did eventually see his outline. We weren't both behind the desk, he just was. He would have gone to the restroom had they been unlocked at the time. The way the desk was positioned, I had to pass it quite often, so I would glance at him every time and sometimes watch for a minute or two, not that he minded. I was glad there was no ejaculation, because I was worried about how he'd clean it up. I couldn't see his penis, but his pants weren't completely on either. I was just worried what that might look like if it hit the carpet. I believe it was a dry orgasm. 5.2. I guess it would be the other way around. Oops. I guess you would need to know for honeymoon! 6. Oops, I did! I meant, I used to refer to a penis as a penis. I think that was a weird auto correct thing. If it does it again, I'll have to add under scores or something. It's pretty much the same for girls, breast can be boobs, tits, to titis. We refer to testicles as balls, some girls refer to their vagina as their p*ssy. I personally can't stand that word because it sounds weird and gross. 7. I just like to stay conservative! Girls don't really talk about it, they just do it just tease guys. They'll wear really short skirts so when they bend over you can see. Or walk past a guy who's sitting down, in close range. I do have a few questions. 1. So guys can really get erections for no reasons? So can guys just sit there and it happens? 2. Do guys ever think about how they would pleasure a girl down below, like how girls think about giving guys a bj? 3. Do guys look for certain things in a girl, like size of breast, or clit, or anything? 4. Do guys like to tease girls like girls tease guys? 5. Have you ever seen anyone masturbate?

Reply I just felt the need to apologize considering I said a week and was actually gone for two. I felt like I left you hanging too long. 1. Yeah. It was cool. I don't think many people were paying attention. I bet it is embarrassing for a guy to have an erection. 2. Well I guess I don't wear them often because everyone sees me as that tough girl who wears a jeans all the time, but I like wearing them. I said I was going to start wearing them more. The breeze is quite nice 3. I'm not sure really. I presume guys get infections down below and I guess it's the thought of my husband not telling me I guess. I'd also like him to stay clean. Then again, I feel like my expectations are to high. I really would like to give my husband a bj though. Glad I didn't offend you. 4. Good points, but it doesn't make a difference for me either way. 5. It was a bit interesting and a bit arousing. Like I said, we were staying after school to clean the class. We had to keep going back and forth from the class to the dumpster. We'd pass the cheerleaders every time. Our school cheerleaders are very pretty, if I do say so myself. Perfect hair, perfect body, perfect everything. They were also in extremely short shorts or booty shorts, whatever you like to call them. I guess for him they looked extremely good. They do certain type of dances, like a suggestive, but not too bad, which I guess was very arousing considering they had to keep doing it over and over again. I did eventually see his outline. We weren't both behind the desk, he just was. He would have gone to the restroom had they been unlocked at the time. The way the desk was positioned, I had to pass it quite often, so I would glance at him every time and sometimes watch for a minute or two, not that he minded. I was glad there was no ejaculation, because I was worried about how he'd clean it up. I couldn't see his penis, but his pants weren't completely on either. I was just worried what that might look like if it hit the carpet. I believe it was a dry orgasm. 5.2. I guess it would be the other way around. Oops. I guess you would need to know for honeymoon! 6. Oops, I did! I meant, I used to refer to a penis as a penis. I think that was a weird auto correct thing. If it does it again, I'll have to add under scores or something. It's pretty much the same for girls, breast can be boobs, tits, to titis. We refer to testicles as balls, some girls refer to their vagina as their p*ssy. I personally can't stand that word because it sounds weird and gross. 7. I just like to stay conservative! Girls don't really talk about it, they just do it just tease guys. They'll wear really short skirts so when they bend over you can see. Or walk past a guy who's sitting down, in close range. I do have a few questions. 1. So guys can really get erections for no reasons? So can guys just sit there and it happens? 2. Do guys ever think about how they would pleasure a girl down below, like how girls think about giving guys a bj? 3. Do guys look for certain things in a girl, like size of breast, or clit, or anything? 4. Do guys like to tease girls like girls tease guys? 5. Have you ever seen anyone masturbate?

I will definitely have to try for you tomorrow! Had I'd seen up the shorts, I probably would have slightly blushed and felt a little embarrassed for him. I would have to let him know. Sorry my other reply did something weird and made everything a giant paragraph. I hope it's no too confusing.

Regarding your feedback:

1. I don't like girls to flaunt their bodies, but I like them to be comfortable with them.

2. I think you are a paradox (lol)! You come across here as a lovely sensitive girl, yet you project yourself as a hard tough girl. I would like to be close to the girl you seem to be on here, but I would keep my distance from the tough girl you project to everyone else.

3. Some guys get STIs if they are sexually promiscuous, but I've never had one. Keep your expectations high - I do. Not every guy's aim is to get inside any girl's panties as often as possible. Do you imagine giving your future husband a bj? Is that thought arousing? If you do give him a bj, you will gain the health benefit of consumption of his semen.

5. I would get aroused if I saw cheerleaders practising close up. You know what sort of things would excite your husband (even if you don't have the cheerleader body). If you saw his 'outline' and watched him masturbating, how did you deal with your arousal?

5 (2). I would want to know whether she masturbated. Nearly ever guy masturbates, and a great deal of girls do, from what I understand (do they?). I think you have to trust each other when it comes to getting that serious.

6. Penis is still referred to as a penis!!  How do you think of your breasts? Boobs or Tits? I think p***y sounds strange too. The 'c' word is often used (I trust that doesn't offend) I don't use it, but I have heard that many girls use that term. I absolutely hate it being used as a derogatory term though. What terms do you use now for male and female genitals?

7. I think girls who overrtly tease like that often ask for trouble. Although if a gf did that just for me, I think I would be flattered. Certainly aroused.

Now (at last) for your questions:

1. Yes guys can. Particularly common when just 'growing up', but I often get one first thing in the morning when waking up. It is commonly called 'morning wood'. Some guys get nocturnal emissions (so-called wet dreams). But sometimes you can just sit there and it happens. I don't know how universal it is, but I think it is very common.

2. It depends on the guy. Some guys watch porn and seem to think about it all the time, but it seems more for what they can get from it. What guys talk about is not always reality but fantasy I think. Bravado. Some talk of 'eating p***y' (horrible term), but I think many just want to get their fingers inside a girl. Some only want a gf who can squirt! How selfish. I want a girl who will let me know how she wants to be pleasured, and will guide me, and I can meet her needs (not the needs of some fantasy girl). I hope I meet someone like that.

3. Some guys look for the typical porn star, and comment on girls with big breasts, but they are just crude. I have not heard any looking for a large clit, though some no doubt do. Some look for 'nice legs'. As for me, I want a girl who has an attractive personality, and one who wouid potentially make me a good wife. The size of her breasts are incidental, though obviously part of the presented package. The size of her clit is not important. How would I know it's size without being told? I don't imagine a girl would say, "Hi my name is Amber, and I have a large clit". I suppose it might be evident in a bikini if the camel toe showed a significant protrudence. I have heard of guys who have mocked a girl with "hey, she has a penis!" but they are uncouth and unkind. What do you girls look for?

4. I am not sure how they would do that. What do you have in mind? Some I think like to show off. I think guys react visually to girls more than girls do to boys. How do you react  to guys' physical appearance? What would you find teasing?

5. I've never seen a girl masturbate (apart from young girls fiddling with themselves). I have seem some guys 'stroking' on occasions, but never to orgasm. I've never seen any anal masturbation. Have you seen girls masturbate?

I hope that answers your questions adequately.

I look forward to hearing all about your commando experience. Thabk you very much. You are so kind.

If you had seen up my shorts leg, how would you have let me know? What would you have said?

If I saw up your skirt, would you want me to let you know? How would you have wanted me to? What would be the nicest thing for me to say?