Your answers: 1. Yeah. I think it's annoying when girls try to "show off". I think they draw trouble to themselves. 2. Yeah, I guess I am paradox. I mean people presume I'm a tough girl, but really I'm sweet and I love talking to people! It's what I do! I'm glad you think I'm sensitive! It try to be sensible and understanding. 3. I guess that is one of my fears, falling for a guy who just wants sex. I do see myself giving him a bj and it is arousing! I actually didn't know there were health benefits from semen. What are they? 4. I know this may sound weird, but I would definitely watch my husband masturbate! I mean it would be a win win, right? It wasn't hard to ignore considering I wasn't just focused on him. 5. Yes, they do. Girls just don't talk about it and try not to make it known. I also believe trust plays a large part in telling your partner you masturbate. 6. Ok. Let's try this again. I used to refer to penis as d i c k. If says penis again, then I'm done. Um, I don't really think much of them really. Sometimes they can be a hassle though. Like for girls who have larger ones, you cant lay on them for too long. Or at least I can't. And then there's determining what bra you need for a certain shirt. I don't like the "c" work either. I think it's weird. You didn't offend me. I refer to everything by name now. The names don't bother me anymore. 7. They are asking for trouble if its not towards their bf (or gf for some). I have a friend who flaunts her breast and then gets upset when she gets "unwanted" attention for them. My questions/answers. 1. That's a bit interesting. 2. I hate when guys do that. Only want a girl for her body! I have to agree with you. That's why I would like to know if my husband masturbates, so he can guide me and tell me what he wants. 3. Girls are the same way. Only looking for what their fantasy portrays, such as a large penis. I look for nice personality. Personality always comes first and then looks. I don't really have anything special really. Just an attractive guy that's sweet and a little on the funny side. Do you have any special traits or expectations? 4. I guess how girls wear short skirts, guess wear right shirts to show off muscles. Well the first thing that pops in my head when I see a good looking guy is, wow, look at there! He knows he's good looking or I hope he knows. One thing I see when it comes to guys teasing a girl is when they act like they're so into a girl and they're really not. That makes me furious! 5. I have never seen another girl masturbate. You answered my questions! Thank you! I do have three more if you don't mind. 1. How sensitive is a penis? Pain and infection wise. 2. What does it feel like for a guy to have an orgasm? 3. Do guys have like, "a time of the month?" Not like having a period or anything of that nature. I mean is there a time when emotions go out of whack? I see this in my dad and a few of my male friends. Like a certain time of the month, they get really sensitive. I know this sounds like a stupid question, but I was just wondering.
There's not a real problem with the single paragraph. You have numbered the points, so they are at least kept separate that way. What I find more difficult is when I you don't refer to the point you are responding to. So when you say "Yes they do", "I don't think much of them" or "That's a bit interesting", I have to try and find out who "they" are and what it is they "do", what the "them" is that you don't think much of, and what it is that you find "a bit interesting". But perhaps that's a guy thing!
Now regarding your feedback on my feedback:
3. I think you should soon spot a guy who is just after you for sex. But portraying yourself as the tough-girl is more likely to get the attention of that sort of guy who could see you as a trophy. The guy who wants a proper personal relationship would probably be reticent about the tough-girl. When imagining giving your husband a bj, do you see him uncircumcised? And what size is he? Where are you when you think about it? How do you deal with your arousal? Semen has nutrients in it and can help with moods. I'll talk more about the health benefits of semen later. Remind me if I forget.
4. So if you would watch your husband masturbate (no, that doesn't sound weird), would you let him watch you masturbate? Would you let him ejaculate on your body? How would you react to seeing him ejaculate? Would you ejaculate over him? A "win, win" - I like that! (Tell me more!)
5. If girls don't talk about masturbation, and try not to make it known, how do you know a great deal of girls do masturbate? (I'm intrigued). Do they all masturbate the same way?
6. What I meant about thinking about your breasts, is do you consider them as boobs or tits? I imagine larger breasts can be problematic at times (like when running). But I suppose they can compensate with sensitivity. Do you imagine holding your husband's penis between them and giving him a tj? I think the "c" word used to be the common word many years ago (Middle Ages), and seems to come from German or Old Norse. What terms do other girls use for male and female genitals?
7. How does your friend flaunt her breasts?
Now your questions/answers:
1. What did you find particularly interesting about what I said about spontaneous erections? Do girls get aroused for no reason?
2. I think you would start with the assumption he probably masturbates. You could ask (as bf) how often he masturbates: "I hear most guys masturbate a lot, so how often do you masturbate?". How would you say what you want?
3. What is it about a big penis for some girls? Do they mean long, or thick? Is it the look? Or the thought of it in them, or maybe sucking on it? What do you think of big ones? My expectations? Someone who has the same moral and spiritual outlook, and has personality 'depth'. Someone who wants to be a wife and wants a husband (not just partners!). Someone who is completely open about everything and would guard my heart. Pleasant looks, and not outlandish style.
4. I think someone who pretends to be interested in another, but are not really, are just cruel. I would only take an interest like that in someone I saw as a potential wife. I couldn't get that close to someone who I had no intention of being serious with. In fact, I wouldn't seriously date a girl who I could not see as a possible wife. That's only playing with another's emotions.
Now your questions: 1. Penis sensitivity is difficult to answer. I suppose it must be as sensitive as your clit (but most of your clit is inside). I wouldn't want you to bite it! The shaft is quite strong and can take heavy handling. The foreskin is more susceptible to damage. The head can get sore if caught. But be careful with the testicles! I cannot recall having any infection, but of course sexually active guys are open to STIs. Is that enough detail? What about you girls? I know you can get cystitis easily.
2. When I have approach an orgasm, my penis gets harder, and the delightful sensation from stimulation increases, tension builds, and at the moment of orgasm a wonderful sensation is felt as the semen rushes up the urethra and bursts through, pulsating, and spurting in spasms. my whole penis is alive, balls too, and a complete release is felt. Doesn't last long though! (Is that understandable) How about you girls?
3. I haven't noticed a monthly cycle in me. I'll have to look out for it, but it will take time. (No, it's not a stupid question! But you've got me wondering).
Now some questions from me.
1. What sort of intimacy levels are you comfortable with (1) before marriage (2) before engagement?
2. How would you let a guy know you want intimacy?
3. Have you had problems with arousal during medical exams?
Thanks for the advice on how to respond to seeing your underwear. How would you react to me pointing it out? Would you be embarrassed or aroused, or both? What if it had aroused me?
I am glad you enjoyed the freedom and feeling of no underwear under your sweats. Are you going to do that more often? I was hoping you would tell me what it was like when wearing a skirt.
That's fine. Again thank you for letting me know. I understand.
I'm back! Sorry for keeping you waiting! With these replies, I'll try to refrain from using general statements as that can be confusing.
Feedback on feedback:
3. I'd have agrees with you, I probably will stumble upon a guy who just wants sex because of attitude. I'm trying to break that habit because I think I, "scare off" the guys who want a genuine relationship.
When I imagine giving my husband a bj, I mostly see him circumcised I guess because it's cleaner. I don't really have a preference. The size doesn't matter to me either. I guess average.....? What is the average size of a guy?
Normally I am home when I think about these types of things so I deal with them accordingly.
4. If he would allow me to watch masterbate, then I would let him watch me in return, for fun and to make it fair. Yes, I would let him ejaculate on me. If I were to see him ejaculate, it would probably be even more arousing then just watching him masturbate. I would probably ejaculate over him too.
Well when I say a win, win, I really mean a win, win. If I were to watch him masturbate, I would get aroused and then start doing it myself. Then we'd both be doing it in each other's company, making us both aroused, making it a win, win!
5. Well there's really no distinct way to know if a girl masturbates, but I've caught on to how girls tell their friends, without really telling them if that makes sense, but this could also mean they've had sex. So if a girl can describe what she wants done while having sex in detail, then that either means she's had sex or has masturbate and found out what she likes. I hope this made sense.
6. Oh, I'm sorry, I thought you meant what it was like to have breast. My bad. But I call mine boobs. And they are pretty tough.
I do imagine giving my husband a tj. I've always wondered what that felt like and it would be kinda fun.
I do imagine the "c" was used way back then. Many people don't use it much anymore. I guess it's considered out dated.
I don't know of any other terms other than the ones we've discussed.
7. She likes to show cleavage on purpose and she walks all reared back to make them stand out more. That's how she flaunts her breast.
My questions/answers
1. I thought guys getting erections just because was interesting just because. Like you can just sit there and it happened, like an involuntary movement.
I've never had one happen to me, but I'm sure it's quite possible.
2. Well if I had to assume and then ask if my b.f masturbates, I'd wait til we were both comfortable and probably say something smooth like your example or I could just ask him.
3. Um, I think with girls, a penis has to be long, and thick. I personally don't think much of big ones considering, I'd hate for it to, you know, hurt. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I guess I don't want one that's too large, but one that isn't too small. Wow, that was a little embarrassing.
It looks to me that out expectations are the same.
4. Playing with somone' s emotions making me mad! Glad I'm not the only one.
More of my questions:
1. Yes, that was plenty of detail describing the sensitivity of the penis. Let's see if I can do the same.
Ok, so the entire area below is pretty sturdy if I do say so myself. It can withstand a lot of things, such as hot water or a baby. Infections are bound to happen, such sexually transmitted diseases or a yeast infection (never had one, but would hate to get one). You always have to keep clean and avoid extra moisture. Make sure there are never any tears that result from masturbation or sex. If there are some, make sure to have them treated immediately. I hope that was ok.
2. Very understandable explanation of a male orgasm and I know how you feel, I wish it lasted longer too.
For me, when I get close to an orgasm, my body starts to warm up. My legs have a tendency to tense up and my knees lock. My clit and vagina start to pulse any my clit swells. My body then begins to jerk involuntarily and this tense and warm feeling hits me all over and I hold my breath for a minute and then everything starts to calm down.
I hope that was understandable.
3. I understand if seeing the cycle takes time, just wondering if it was a guy thing or just in the guys I know.
Your questions:
1. Intimacy before marriage for me, would probably be a little bit of exploring one another, but not to the point of sex.
Before engagement, I'm not really sure actually. Sorry.
2. I guess I would let him know I wanted intimacy by just throwing hints I guess, like laying on him more or making the first move or even just telling him. I'm little straightforward, but I wouldn't be until we got comfortable with each other.
3. I have never been aroused during a medical exam. I mostly get embarrassed. Have you ever gotten aroused during a medical exam?
I hope I did better with identifying the previous questions in my responses. Thank you for letting me know I was confusing you.
Had you seen up my skirt, I probably would have been embarrassed. Had if aroused you, embarrassment would have lessened and I would have blushed and been slightly aroused.
I might start going commando more often and I'll be sure to do it with a skirt soon!
Well, thanks for that. well described - and arousing!
Average penis size is 5.5 - 6" erect (measured along the top). Some guys over-estimate! Others measure wrongly.
Do girls compare clit sizes? Or labia size?
No, I've not had an erection during medical exams - yet!
I heard that some girls almost orgasm with a breast exam, and some with a vaginal exam!
I also heard that some more endowed girls suck there own nipples for stimulation. Is that true?
Some girls can have multiple orgasms - one after another. Guys usually have to wait a while.
I wait to hear about your commando experiences - particularly with a skirt.
Thanks again. Any more questions to ask or information to give?
So I take it you don't suck you own nipples. Have you watched your friend suck her own? Did she orgasm from that? How did that affect you?
Some boys apparently masturbate together. I think they sometimes call it a 'circle jerk'. I haven't done it, nor seen it.
Wow. You are opening my eyes? Have you masturbated with other girls, or seen them together? Is it common for girls to do it together? How are they 'dressed' for the occasion? Do they sit, or lie down? Can you describe what happens? Is there an audience? I am intrigued.
What terms do you use for masturbating?
Is there anything else you can tell me about girls?
Have you gone commando recently?
I think that's it. I'm just waiting eagerly for your report on going commando in a skirt.
Then that will have to be it. Your previous message somehow seemed quite erotic, and I ended up having a dream about you.
Thanks
Hi Cay
Haven't heard from you for over 3 weeks. I hope you are OK. I trust I didn't freak you out about my dream. That was a confession to let you know how it affects guys sometimes. Nothing personal at all.
i only seen a few people masture and loved it so much and i think how lick a vagina and clit all the time.
if i am turned on after being at the mall i will masturbate in the car on the way home. once was masturbating in the car over my underwear and was ready to orgasm and girl watch the whole it was great.but i pulled down my underwear to have the orgasm she stopped looking