I care about my girlfriend and I want to help her. We had sex for the first time tonight and she was complaining of a stomach ache right after. She bled and she had to pee alot. We used protection with spermicide. Could she be pregnant after first time with protection? Help with the abdominal pain. I think it's just nerves. I was having some too.
Yes it is very possible to get pregnant even with protection the first time. Not as likely, but possible. and the bleeding is also normal this is causes from the breaking of something called the hymen. I'm not sure about the peeing or stomach pain but it could be nerves/stress they are powerful things.
After my first time having sex my period was late 2 weeks even though we used protection. I wasn't pregnant but stress and nerves can do a lot to a girl after her first time. Abdominal pain can be just because of sore muscles. They aren't used to working that way. Condoms are very safe if you use them correctly, and they don't break. Make sure it doesn't slip of as you pull out, hold it on. I have used them safely for 2 years. If her period is late its best to get a pregnancy test asap just to relieve the stress right away. Its horrible not knowing. Having to pee is completely normal. It just happened to be at a time that you are worrying about everything.