Have I caused my girlfriend to become pregnant? I am having trouble starting this but the situation is my girlfriend and I were having mutual masturbation. She had caused me to ejaculate outside of my boxers and onto both her and I on our stomachs. I then felt the semen with my index and middle finger. After attempting to wipe it off I proceeded to finger her with my middle and ring finger. Once finished I explained what I thought had happened and we both tried to visit a clinic to seek advice. However, we were not able to find and visit a clinic in time due to the time. We are both extremely stressed and scared. I would appreciate any advice or knowledge on what should be done and the possibility I have caused my girlfriend to become pregnant. We are very young and we are in desperate need of help. Please help.
Hi Lewis,
If you fingered your girlfriend with fresh semen on your fingers, there is a chance of pregnancy. Sperm needs to get into her vagina.
But, the odds of pregnancy even when everything is perfect, such as timing, is only about 1 in 5. There are no guarantees that she'll get pregnant.
Sperm is also fairly fragile so being outside the body on your fingers may have damaged the sperm as well.
So, yes there is a chance but not very high. If it has been less than 72 hours an emergency contraceptive such as Plan B or the Ipill may be an option.
Hope it helps.