hi im 17 and i lost my virignity to my boyfriend 5 days ago (my boyfriend used protection) i didnt bleed and it wasnt very painful but the next day it stung when i went to the bathroom and i would bleed. not period blood but light red blood only when i went to the bathroom. 2 days after i stopped bleeding and it didnt hurt to go to the bathroom anymore but i was still sore like i was bruised and i had a yellowish brown discharge. the discharge has continued and this morning i woke up with swollen tonsils that have white marks on them and a fever! im really scared i might have an STD like gonorhea and the biggest problem is that in the country i live in there are no clinics i can go to unless im married!!!! please help me!!
I don't think you have an STD. so relax. (Wouldn't that be the worst luck - your first time ever having sex and you get one!).
The discharge, burning, etc might just have been your body's reaction to the first time having sex. You might not have had any pain during sex but had a delayed reaction to it - like when you work out one day feeling really good and the next day all of your bones ache. Something like that.
Anyhow the discharge color was probably semen mixed with blood - your body was cleaning it out of you. Semen can stay active and in a woman's body for three days. Since you said it stopped it sounds like thats all that it was.
As for the swollen tonsils and sore throat, that sounds like something totally unrelated like maybe strep throat or some kind of sinus infection. You can talk to your parents about those symptoms if they don't get better and not even mention the sex. BTW - I hope your bf and you are practising birth control. If your not, get ahold of your nearest planned parenthood and get on something.
The discharge, burning, etc might just have been your body's reaction to the first time having sex. You might not have had any pain during sex but had a delayed reaction to it - like when you work out one day feeling really good and the next day all of your bones ache. Something like that.
Anyhow the discharge color was probably semen mixed with blood - your body was cleaning it out of you. Semen can stay active and in a woman's body for three days. Since you said it stopped it sounds like thats all that it was.
As for the swollen tonsils and sore throat, that sounds like something totally unrelated like maybe strep throat or some kind of sinus infection. You can talk to your parents about those symptoms if they don't get better and not even mention the sex. BTW - I hope your bf and you are practising birth control. If your not, get ahold of your nearest planned parenthood and get on something.
I just reread that and noticed you said that you did use protection.
Did the condom have a spermicide on it? If it did that could account for some of your reaction, the burning sensatiion that you experienced anyhow. I get terrible reactions to spermicide myself.
Did the condom have a spermicide on it? If it did that could account for some of your reaction, the burning sensatiion that you experienced anyhow. I get terrible reactions to spermicide myself.
could also have been a bladder infection. My frined had sex with her Boyfriend and she got one like a day after.