I have never had an orgasm before other than myself using a vib on my clit. I can not seem to find any place on my body that is a real turn on. My boyfriend has so many. But it seems that I can give him lots of pleasure and he can not do so much for me. I mean sex is great, but i feel like I am wierd or something because he cums a few times and i do not have a single orgasm.There are places that drive him crazy an get him turned on that he likes. It seems that I do not have any.....I do not know what to do. Please help!!!! :'( :'( :'(
well I can tell you right now that there are some good places that he can hit so make you feel good....but first before I say that...its not bad for you to want to please yourself a little more while having sex...For example, a lot of women rub their clit while the guy's penis is inside of them to get greater pleasure....anyways....there are some positions that you can try that can help your feel a lot better...obviously you know where your clit is at....but if you need to show him where it is and tell him that it feels good when he touches you there so that maybe he can have some oter ideas to use like his fingers or his tongue to stimulate it in a different way...also you should show him....(or maybe find yourself) where the g spot is at....cause stimulating this place is what actually makes most girls cum....if you don't know where its at then you can do some research on it, and have him find it on you (technically in you)....but just in general...don't be afraid to direct him and tell him where you feel good at, be a little controlling if you need to, and a little selfish about pleasing yourself, cause hey if it wasn't for you then he wouldn't be having all this pleasure.......also just another tip...there are certain positions that you probably already know, and also some modified positions to help the women find more pleasure....you should do some research on it....I actually remember while I was doing research that the cosmo website showed a lot of modified positions to help you cum faster and better.....
I have done research. About the g-spot. But also i am a little self consous about things. I have never had an orgasm except with a vibrator on my clit. Idk.
Hi kitty, I know that you are very suceptible to an orgasm if you actually have sex in the doggie style position, and that it's a great way to actually hit it. I understand being self-conscious but you need to get over it if you do want to have an orgasm, as it can be a BIG mental block! What do you think?
Hi smexykitty,
I know that there are some women that also can not experience orgasm. It is just hard for them. I'm not sure of the positions that you can use, but you can try what helthnfitnessguy suggested.
I hope that it will be successful for you.
I know that there are some women that also can not experience orgasm. It is just hard for them. I'm not sure of the positions that you can use, but you can try what helthnfitnessguy suggested.
I hope that it will be successful for you.
I shall try healthfitnessguy. My only other problem is that if i feel like i getting close....he cums too fast......And than i loose it and idk. He gets a spot where i really like but sometimes it starts to hurt so i tell him to stop for a second and we start again and he cums just when he is getting close i feel like.
Change positions a lot. It can help out quite a bit. I know that it sounds kind of goofy but changing positions can really help with that. Does that make sense?
Not really....I am confused
I think what healthnfitnessguy was trying to say is if you change position while having sex maybe he will not cum that fast. And it will give you more time. There are a lot of positions so explore a little and see what do you favor the most.
Do you have more questions regarding this? Have you tried anything new?
Do you have more questions regarding this? Have you tried anything new?
i am not that fit and when i do some positions it really hurts my leggs or i get tired easily...that is all. really.
There are a lot of positions. There are TONS of positions. You can do all sorts of different once and ones that are easy on your legs or ones that don't wear you out and you can keep switching it up so you can continue to have sex for a long period of time. I know some guys who go from a few minutes to a few hours doing that. Does that make sense then?
OK, first thing is that sex needs to be comfortable and pleasurable. If it hurts stop it immediately. The most important thing is that you need to enjoy it.
I'm not sure has anybody asked you this, but does your boyfriend use condoms? It is very important for the safety of both of you. Some men don't like condoms, because they have less sense and pleasure. If he is not using a condom maybe he with it would take him longer to cum.
I'm not sure has anybody asked you this, but does your boyfriend use condoms? It is very important for the safety of both of you. Some men don't like condoms, because they have less sense and pleasure. If he is not using a condom maybe he with it would take him longer to cum.
Yes he uses a condom. Most of the time that is. every once in a while we dont have any. but we normally do.
That's good to know. Did you try using multiple positions like I said? Have you heard of the Kama Sutra? I know you can do a quick google search for it. It has hundreds of positions in it. There will be plenty you can do without getting tired or your legs getting sore, and you can help him take longer too.