(i am a guy) I have heard of many different ways of how guys should finger girls. The reason i am asking is i am 15 and dont want to have sex but looking for a pleasurable alternative for girls or guys. Please post...
Just ask her (while doing it) what she likes. When manually stimulating a girl, it is extremely important not to go from stimulating the anus and/or rectum to stimulating the vaginal area. If bacteria from the anus/rectum are transferred to the vagina, vaginal infection may occur. Wearing and then removing gloves, or washing ones’ hands after manually stimulating the anus/rectum are strategies that can be used to prevent vaginal infection. Although not necessary for manual stimulation, many people enjoy adding lubricant to their manual play. The use of lubricant can increase sensitivity during play and decrease discomfort caused by friction. When stimulating the vagina and rectum, neatly trimmed and filed fingernails are helpful if one is trying to avoid damaging tissue. Because the tissues inside the vagina and rectum are sensitive; sharp or ragged nails may result in tearing. women like to be caressed all over before you lay a finger on the clitoris. The clitoris is almost always the main hotspot for women, with a huge amount of nerve endings for intense pleasure. There are also several areas inside the vagina, worth exploring, especially the G Spot on the front wall, just inside the opening.
apart from paying attention to these areas what else would or should be included to stimulate a girl. or is it mainly personal preference...?
You should start slow. Rub your fingers over the whole area. Dip them into her p***y. If you have been kissing and fondling her breasts she should already be very wet. Take your wet fingers and rub up higher around her clit. Be very soft, slow and gentle or it could be painful. Ask her to guide your hand where she wants to be touched. As she gets turned on more and more you can start to rub her clit harder and faster. Keep going back to her p***y and dip your fingers in and feel all around inside her. Then return to her clit. You can tell from the soound of her breathing and her moaning when you are doing the right things. Good luck.
next week iam going to give my boyfriend a handy and a blow job, he says he wants to fingure me and rub. I do it myself but iam a little bit nervous because no one has done it to me before. are you suppose to shave your vagina before he fingures u so your not a bit hairy???
I don't think it matters, I certainly wouldn't mind a bit of hair.
Yes if you have a big bush no guy is going to want to go near that even if you dont chave all the way i would at least take away a big bush and maybe leave a line leading to your bellybutton but shave everything that would be seen outside the underwear.
Tuesday is when I'm hanging out with my boyfriend but I'm scared because he wants to finger me and I said it was okay , but like I need help though , like I honestly don't know what to do , comment to help me out! Thanks a lot , good luck everyone ! (:
i always use my middle finger
to make my SEXY girl all WET
fingering
and sometimes i use a DILDO on her p***y
afetr all this , i put my big huge penis in her
how long does a boy usually finger a girl for ?
Until you come and then keep going until she comes.
I think this is very helpful I am 15 to and wondering and experiencing with my boyfriend but I want to stay a virgin thank you
Until she orgasms then let her touch you
Ok so, my boyfriend and I were on the couch. He sat up after a while and spread my legs then started to finger me. I didn’t know what to do because, I wasn’t in the position to kiss him or show him how I felt and now I don’t know how I should act the next time it happens
If you don't feel comfortable with him doing it or you feel things are moving to fast then just tell him to stop because once you say that if he then carries on doing It that is rape, don't be scared to speak out, woman have a voice too!