In september, I had an abotion. I was sleeping with the father of the child for over 1yr and when i went for the abortion he paid for 3/4 the cost. I went for the injection but it didnt work and they had to suck it out using a very huge syringe. It was the most painful thing i ever had to go through. After that while still resting in the clinic, i went to use the ladies room and I blacked out for a few minutes on the floor of the WC. After that, i kept having weird mood swings and crying or asking questions to try and justify if the guy cared for me. The guy never called or even text to ask how i am doing. After that he started acting weird n avoiding me and then told me there was someone else. I still slept with him even after that and told myself he feels something for me. A few days ago, i called him and told him i needed to talk to someone.He told me he was out of town with her and is he the only person i can talk to and I shld move on with my life and he cant stand having me around him. I cant even tel my best friend what i did as i am so ashamed.The one person who knew what i was going through shunned me. The pain at times gets so unbearable.
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Abortion is one of those situations that are never easy, no matter what some women say, but in situations like yours, where you have to go through this basically alone and even more, to deal with him and another woman, well, tough situation just begins to describe it. I know it’s hard, but you need to start taking care of yourself and forget about him. That won’t happen overnight, but it will eventually get better. But you need support of others – it’s hard to go through this alone. Is there anyone you can trust? Is there anyone who would listen without judgment?
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I tried talking to my best friend but i lied to her and told her it was a miscarriage. I want to tel her the truth but she is pregnant and I feel she would be angry at me. She has been my greatest support ever since I told her about him and the other lady. I am trying to forget about him but its quite hard. Smtimes I'll wake up in the middle of the night dreaming about him and i dont want to have anything to do with him anymore.
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Hi, even though this happened to you over a year ago, I'm going through a similar situation I had an abortion than he left me for another girl. It sucks, I have a great support system but its so hard on me, at times I feel like I should have died along with my baby which I killed. Please tell me how you went through this phase and how you conqured it.
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Same here.... I had to go through the procedure alone. He just drove me to the clinic just because he wants to make sure I do it and also to pay his half of the cost. At the end of the day he called and just asked if I made it out alive and how I'm feeling emotionally. After that he changed a lot till he said that he's no longer interested in me. It really hurts because I knew he just waited for the abortion to be done and over with just like he wanted. Now he's starting to meet other girls out there while I'm struggling emotionally every day with what I've been through. But I believe that karma will get him real good sooner or later.
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