Not to give away too much, I'm just going to say I'm a male high school student. I masturbate normally maybe 1-2 times a day, in 5-10 minute sessions.
So recently, I just sort of felt like giving it a go. However, I have no idea how to start. Most of the time, I'm at home, so the only viable environment is in the shower or supposedly taking a bathroom break. I don't have any sort of lube apart from Vaseline (and water), and I have no reason to have any toys. Assuming I've never done anything of the sort before, what is the optimal way and conditions to start?
And I'm not sure if this is related, but I still don't get along with girls much. I'm not the popular type, more like neutral. I'm not super likable I guess. but I still have enough guy friends to hang around with. Is using adult oriented material to masturbate or masturbating in general causing me to objectify the other gender?