How to stimulate the prostate by finger/s?

im 6 day late and im cramping but no period and i am having slight heartburn WHAT DOES THIS MEAN

massaging the prostate can make for very intense orgasms. But it is hard to relax while trying to massage the prostate while at the same time masturbating. It is best if you have a partner that knows how to give a good massage. But your reaction is not unusual. That is why it is important to know how to relax. Most men tighten their sphincter muscle when they are trying to be penetrated. If you use a toy, you should push out like your trying to have a bowel movement. It is also good to use warm water bottle with a wand and clean out your insides. Usually do this a few time until the water that comes out is clear. Getting pleasure from stimulating your prostate does not make you gay. A lot of girls will do this with their boyfriends. Whether a toy or the real thing, I think the easiest way to first do this is by sitting on it. Use lube and you can relax and sit down a little and raise back up if it hurts. Any other way is putting the other person in charge of how much and how quickly you take it. Some believe a quick push and then let the pain subside. But you want this to be pleasurable. Once you are able to relax your sphincter muscle, then you know what is happening, and until you ask, you should do this at your own pace. When you are comfortable doing it this way,, then you can try other positions , relaxing and telling them to slow down or back up. Some vibrating toys will be good at first, but sometimes you get used to the sensation, and they are not as good after you use them awhile. There is nothing wrong if your attracted to a guy, but this making you feel good does not mean you need a guy to do it.

Try relaxing and wait till a fluid comes out

where do you place your finger at

You side your or your male friends' lubed forefinger and middle finger into and on up your squidgy warm anus until you come across your prostate and keep prodding. Your senses and your hard engorged penis will let you know you have hit the right spot!!!