So I know I have seamen, but everytime I try to masturbate, I can't even get hard, it's only when I'm just playing with it that it gets hard. I know people say that 75% is in the mind, but that doesn't help. I also tried lying down, which people have said makes it easier to ejaculate. I know nothing is wrong with me. But what AM I DOING WRONG!!! I hear everone talking about how they masturbate and how great it is. It's kind of awkward not to be able to participate in that (despite the topic itself being awkward, but still). So what do I do?!?! It's just so frustrating! It always takes SO LONG and no success! I mean I once tried for 1 hour, and nothing! What do I do?