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heyy i am 13 years old, and love to masturbate. it brings a lot of pleasure, but im afraid my mom will find out.... and sometimes, i want to have real sex. when i think about how much i like to masturbate...i think about how much MORE pleasure it would give me actually having sex than just playing around. please help me with my issue!!!!!!
Don't worry this is normal for teens your age.  If your going to have sex remember that that their are many things involved in it which could make your life miserable.  So basically sex is great but don't be pushed into it and use protection if you do make that decision.
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You're young and at the age where masturbation is first discovered. Masturbation is completely normal and I am sure your mother will understand. If you can refrain from sex, great! If not use protection and be safe!
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I masturbate with a banana
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This is to GOGOBOO12 ... I see that you say that you was a young girl when you started masturbating ..Way don't you get smart and say to your mother that some girls was saying that they masturbate and say to your mother what is masturbating ?? and she just my tail you ...PS don't you have a lock on your bad room door ? or your bathroom door ?? you know we girls need our privet time's.. from Miss SAM
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Weah, its very well continious
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If you’re only 13, just keep masturbating. You’ll learn what makes you feel good and when you’re 18 or so, mature enough and ready for sex, you’ll know how to explain to your boyfriend what pleases you. Just wait. It’ll be worth it.

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I am not sure why you worry about your mom finding out. Do you have your own room? Can you lock the door? If you have the privacy then I wouldn't worry about your mom. Seriously, your mom will understand that you being a teen you will need your privacy and masturbation will happen. There is nothing wrong or shameful about masturbation. ALL girls masturbate. Those who don't are merely denying it for fear of being labelled "immoral or bad" This is how society has primed our minds. We as girls are brain washed to believe masturbation is wrong.

I am glad you love to masturbate and are confident about it. If you do have a boyfriend it feels even better if he stimulates your clitoris with his mouth and tongue. That soft sensation when he sucks your clitoris gives you such a huge orgasm it is the best feeling. Those sensations are very addictive and it will leave you wanting for more. 

So go for it. Read about sex and prepare yourself and enjoy it thoroughly when you do have sex. Just make sure you find the right guy. I had a much much older guy when I was your age and the sex was mind blowing. Have fun. 

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