It is not so much a question of whether EC worked, as the fact that it was not a fertile time, so there was no egg released to be fertilised. It was far too early.
Thank you Sheppard, I hope this helps ease my mind a little so I can get some rest haven't slept much in weeks because of stress and nightmares. I find clues that lead to my mistake and clues that lead to my boyfriend and it is to the point where I don't know what to think some times.
Pleased to help. But you still need to talk to someone (someone you can trust) about what happened and assess why you 'messed up' on 20 Oct (as well as previously). Then discuss putting in place some safeguarding measures to prevent 'messing up' again. Until you do that, you may well continue to have turmoils. Have you thought about a formal commitment?
I don't know who to talk to really I have no friends and am afraid to tell any family because they all have a big mouth. I talk to my doctor but she isn't much help with. She said the timing is so close it could be either man but in my heart it feels like its my boyfriend baby I'm just so scared to be wrong and hurt him. I'm making a commitment to my son and to my self never to hurt my family like this again. My boyfriend sees the stress I'm going through and I can't hurt him and tell him what's bothering me. I honestly don't know why I wondered off like I have and messed up but I am looking for a counselor or therapist to talk to because this stress is eating me alive... :,(
If you want to talk privately, feel free if you think I could help.
did you ever find out who the father was? I am now in the exact same situation as you
How can I reach u privately?
whose the father of your baby?
Whose the father?
You can use the private message facility here on SteadyHealth. You will need to register first (it's free) and then make a post in public. You will then be able to select my 'name' and send a private message.
It says u r private, can u send my a message my screen name is SoLost111
Hi SoLost111,
I think you have to make at least one post in open before you can use messaging.
I tried to send you a message but I got the response "This recipient is not eligible for the use of private messages", so you probably have not used your screen name in public. Now you are registered, sign in and make a post, then we can try again.
I figured it out an sent u a message
It sounds like it's your ex's baby
Hello! Is there any way to find out the blood types of the possible fathers? It might be able to exclude some men if/when you know the baby's blood type.