I am currently 32 weeks and I'm in a bit of a stressful situation. My last period was Sep 2-6 and I had a one night stand with this guy on Sept 13th. It was unprotected but I saw him cum on my leg when he finished. I wind up having sex with my ex-boyfriend a week later (also unprotected) but this time when he came he was pulling out at the same time. My period was late in October and I found out I was pregnant Oct 8 and at my appt they told me I was (4 weeks & 6 days) I looked on Google and tried to do the math myself but can't seem to come to the conclusion as to WHO the father might be. Should I just get a paternity test or does it sound like my ex could be the father ? HELP??? ANY ADVICE??
It sounds more like the one night stand if you have a standard cycle, but you haven't given much data.
- What is your normal cycle length (typically 28 days)?
- What do you mean by "My period was late in October"? When?
- What is your due date?
- What date did you have sex with your ex?
- What dates did your previous 6 periods start?
1. What date is (or was) your next period due?
2. How did you calculate that date?
3. What were the start dates of your last 6 periods?
4. Were 3rd April & 7th April the only days you had sex?
The timing relative to your cycle is critical. So I would need more information, for if you have a regular typical 28-day cycle, then 1-6 Feb could have been fertile days. However, that doesn't quite tie up with your 6weeks2days pregnancy. The dates seem to be a week out.
- What date did you expect your Feb period to start?
- What were the start dates of your last 6 periods (or as many as you can remember)?
- How was the "6 weeks 2 days" pregnancy calculated on 16 March? Was it a scan result, or a doctor's assessment from your last period?
- What dates did you have sex with your new boyfriend? Especially, when did you start having sex with him?
Were you told why the date might change?
You are probably due for another scan soon. See what the results of that are.
You can then take the due date and deduct 38 weeks for the likely conception (fertilisation) date, indicating pregnancy likely to be from sex on that day or the previous 5 days.
Fair enough. I am due for a scan later on today, will take the due date and count bank as advised. Thanks for the chat.... Helped a lot more than my thoughts did.