Still a little sceptical because I had sex with my ex on the 7th of Feb and all days before and after that where with my current boyfriend.... Mistakes really take a toll on one's mind
I don't think it would have been your One-Night-Stand, but
- "11th may ... I am 4-5 weeks gone" How was that calculated? Scan?
- Have you been given a due date? If so, what is it?
- What were the dates of you last 6 periods (or as many as you know)?
- "last slept with my fella of 5 years on 2nd april." What dates did you have sex before then since your March period?
- "unfortunates had one night stand on 4th" Why do you consider that 'unfortunate'? Anything particular?
Sounds likely, if I understand correctly the little information provided, that you would not have been fertile on 4th & 7th, especially if you had a period starting 5 April. If it were implantation (not a period) it would not have been from sex on 4 April.
However, some clarification & extra information is needed.
- You had a "one-night-stand" on 2 days: 4 & 7 April (same guy).
- You used protection (condom) on 7 April (but not 4 April)?
- Period started 5 April (or implantation).
- When was your period due to start?
- What was the date your last period started (and the previous 5 periods if you know them)?
- Why do you select the 16 April date for conception? How do you arrive at that date?
- How do you reckon "4-5 weeks gone"? From 14 May, that gives 9-16 April.
- What do you mean by "gone"?
- Since conception?
- Since LMP?
- From a scan?
- What is the baby's due date?
- How was that date determined?
It sounds like it on face value, but ...
- How was the "6 weeks 6 days" determined? Scan?
- What is the baby's due date?
- Can you provide the actual start dates of your last 6 periods?
The Clearblue weeks estimator is reckoned to be 93% accurate. It indicates how long since conception, which is better than working from LMP (which tends to assume a 28-day cycle). So 2-3 weeks (14-21 days) would be from Ovulation Date, and you would have been considered fertile for the previous 5 days also. So if you conceived 23-30 April, that would have likely been because of sex from 18-30 April. That would suggest a due date between 14-21 January.
Trust God will be merciful to you as you pray - but don't leave him out of your reckoning in the future!
Hope the visit to the midwife goes well.