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I went to my new docter today. They did not give me another ultrasound. I did ask the nurse about the situation she said yes condoms are pretty effective when used correctly. They kept my same due date based on the ultrasound my former obgyn group gave me. But I still should be safe due to the condom I used right? And my fiancee no protection at all. I'm supposed to be 12 weeks they used Doppler trying to catch babies heart beat but none detected. Said it may be too soon? This is the girl that was saying about my fiancee saying harsh words to me. Since condom did not break it should be my fiancee correct? Other guy did confirm no breaks or tears in the condom.
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Did any of you guys get an answer
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  • Doppler:
    1. 12 weeks is a bit early.
    2. Usually used in the 3rd trimester (after 13 weeks).
    3. You should be due for another ultrasound scan before long. Hopefully, that will be trans-vaginal.
  • Condoms:
    1. "yes, condoms are pretty effective when used correctly" - when used correctly.
    2. "Other guy did confirm no breaks or tears in the condom." - But he would, wouldn't he? He doesn't want the responsibility. I wouldn't rely soley on his statement.
    3. I think you should know what happened.

I think the likelihood is that it is probably your fiance's

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Correction!

  • Doppler: Usually used in the 2nd trimester (after 13 weeks).
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Im pretty positive it did not bust or tear B.C. like you said I should know what happened. I would of known right then and there if it busted or tore. And this person has a 7 year old daughter that he is very much involved with. Which makes me believe he would of told me. He pays child support for her. But more then likely it's my fiancees like you say and like others are telling me. I'm causing myself unnessarcey stress for nothing
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Same situation as many.
I have a 31 day cycle.
Last period was Jan 17-21. I had sex Feb 3rd with my main guy (#1) he ejaculated in me. On Feb 14th I had sex with guy #2. A short hookup and he came on my stomach. That night and on Feb 15 I had sex 3 times with guy#1. Each time he ejaculated in me.

Of course you would think I got pregnant on Feb 3rd. Well all my ultrasounds measure 2 weeks behind. I just had my big anatomy scan and they pushed my due date back almost 2 weeks. I asked my midwife when did I most likely conceive based on my dates she said February 14th.

I have always had regular periods for 11 years and always felt my ovulation so I reallY felt like I conceived Feb 3rd. However now I am not so sure.

I asked guy#2 was he sure he pulled all the way out. He said yeah I did, did the other guy? And I haven't heard from him since.

Additional details: I really feel like its guy #1 baby but I can't be for certain. His family is so excited and I literally cannot tell him right now there's a slim chance it could be guy2.

Thoughts... Answers... Please?

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So on Valentine's day, you had sex with a 'short hook-up'? Feb 14 was just 3 days before your period was due, and would be very unlikely to have been a fertile day, but not impossible. You would have to have ovulated at least 11 days later than usual for that to have been so. But you say 'they pushed my due date back almost 2 weeks' That would seem to be too far for 14 Feb event.

Guy #2 would say he pulled out all the way, evidenced by his ejaculate on your stomach, but he might have released some semen inside you prior to ejaculation.

You have said 'my ultrasounds measure 2 weeks behind' and 'they pushed my due date back almost 2 weeks', but you haven't said what your due dates (initially and the latest) are. Also, was your 1st ultrasounds transvaginal or abdominal? I assume from your post the latest scan was abdominal.

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Hey I'm in the same boat as you now. I have sex with my boyfriend May 5th and a friend May 9th. I'm 7 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I was told I conceived on the 8th or 9th. What was your outcome?
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When was your last period?
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The dates are a little confusing. If you are 7weeks 2 days (=51days) pregnant on 15 June, then it suggests probable conception on 11 May from sex between 6-11 May.

But what date is the baby due?

11 May conception would lead to 1 Feb 2018, but 8-9 May would lead to 29-30 Jan 2018.

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It is your ex boyfriend dear definately ....a girl concieve aftr 10 days but depends aftr the periods ..its your ex
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I had sex with guy #1 may 10 and 20 and June 5. He always nutted in me other then may 20. He pulled out on my back but he was drunk and I believe he didn't pull out all the way it was everywhere. Guy #2 I had sex with on may 23. He always pulled out and said he didn't want kids. We only had sex 5 seconds before he had to pull out but it was on my shirt. My last period was may 13. I had a ultrasound July 5 which read I was 7 weeks 3 days with a conception date of may 27. My due date is February 18. I told guy #1 I had sex with somebody else but he always pulled out. I read the best time to date a conception date on ultrasound is between 8 weeks and 18 weeks. I go for another on July 18. Any suggestions? They both said they pulled out and guy 1 never did except The 20th. Guy 2 always pulled out
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You haven't said how long your cycle is or when your June period was due, but the indication is that you were probably not fertile on 10 & 20 May nor 5 June. 23 May you possibly were, and conception 27/28 seems likely. Do you know your last 5 period dates?
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Loose women, smh.
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Last 5 cycles and all lasted 5 days. January 21, February 26, march 18, April 17, may 13. They range from 25-31 days and my due date is actually February 17th. I bled on June 3rd thought it was my period but it wasent. Took a test the 7th and 9th both negative then took it the 11th and positive.
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