Well, um I am an almost 16 year old girl. I've wanted to try fingering myself for a really long time but I had a guy friend who said that "breaking the hymen" hurts really bad, so I'm pretty scared. I always WANT to pleasure myself, and I get sexually arroused constantly since ive gotten older, but I'm too scared to try it. I don't want it to hurt. I usually just kinda rub down there but its not really enough. Please help me :(
Hi, Your friend is sort of right because it does hurt some girls a lot if there hymen is thicker but some girls don't even realise that they have lost there because it breaks through normal things like horse riding, riding a bicycle or just stretching exercises.
As for wanting to finger yourself to get more pleasure won't really do much, your get far more pleasure from rubbing your clit once you find your sweet spot than doing anything else.
Your clitoris may only be a tiny thing on the out side but it spreads out a long way on the inside :-)
As for wanting to finger yourself to get more pleasure won't really do much, your get far more pleasure from rubbing your clit once you find your sweet spot than doing anything else.
Your clitoris may only be a tiny thing on the out side but it spreads out a long way on the inside :-)