I can't break my girlfriends hymen

My wife was a 'technical' virgin when we met. She had tried to have sex with 3 or four old boyfriends, but none of them could get through her hyman. The penis head would go in, but no further. When we tried, it took an entire day of trying, she was sore and dry, and we had to give up.. I was pretty sure I got through it, but didn't know for sure until a few days later when we tried again. She is pretty small, (about 100 lbs) and was tight, I'm about 6" in curcumf. which I'm told is thicker than normal, and she told me I was bigger than any of her other boyfriends, so I thought I was never going to get it.. When we tried a few days later, it was tight, but a steady push with short strokes did the job, it slipped in as deep as she could take it and it felt great for me, and a little sore for her, but we were finally successful.. It would seem that we did manage to rupture it on that all day tryout, but she was so dry and sore at the end, neither of us was able to tell for sure.. Sex from that point on was great, and has continued to be great for the last 44 years!

the same thing with me my hyman is still there except with a little hole the doctor said i would need surgery. he said its not painful at all and i could go back to work and school as well. talk to your doctor and see what they have to say.

Hey yea I hav a question similar to this !! My bf was so nervous the first time we had sex that he cudnt become fully erect but still put his penis in my vagina...I didn't bleed...it felt like it all or most of his penis was in my vagina...we plan on having sex again in about a week...I don't want to bleed especially cuz he has bn tellin me he will erect this time !!!!

 

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. I had a situation happen to me when I was younger where my girlfriend actually ended up in the hospital because she had such a stubborn hymen. I actually called her mom and said she was sick and then she said she accidentally sat down on a movie seat wrong. No one believed us but we didn't know that at the time (we were 16). afterward she healed, and I guess the doctor did something for her, sex was easy and it slipped right in. As long as it doesn't hurt, the tighter the better. Sorry so vulgar but it's the truth.

The hymen doesn't break. It is a piece of tissue that stays with women for the rest of their life. The reason why it didn't bleed is because your girlfriend has probably stretched out her hymen with other activities.

FHDSKJZH YOU AREN'T SUPPOSED TO BREAK THE f*****g HYMEN DUMBASS. ONLY STRETCH IT.

my boy friend cant brake my hymen.

Go in slow, take your time, don't make the goal to break your hymen. If your hymen covers so much that a penis can't get through after massaging it and using lube, then go to a doctor to have them cut it. 

also, google "hymen," this will show you how many different types there are. Have a doctor tell you what kind yours is, and how to handle it so you don't have pain. 

If you're bleeding or there's pain, your boyfriend isn't doing it right!

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Wow, it's crazy how everyone seems to have the same issue.

Here I thought I was the only one. Im trying to get my boyfriend to break my hymen so we can have sex. I am 29 by the way. We have done other stuff but never sex.

His penis is not that big, its a little below average. Maybe 4 to 5 inches. Anyways, we tried breaking it the old fashion way with him entering me and thrusting but it didn't work.

He says he doesn't think he can reach it with his penis. So we tried the other way with fingers. Let me tell you, to all the girls that say it doesnt hurt or doesnt hurt that much, I want to punch them in the face. It was touture, it hurt so bad! I would imagine a similar pain to child birth! And the killer part was he still couldn't break it, not even tear it.

It is soo frustrating, I just wanted to move on to the next step and have sex with my bf like a normal person and I cant because this obstacle is in my way.

 

I heard about having it done by a doctor but it seems so over the top to do that and embarassing as well.

 

I want to be able to do it the old fashion way with my bf.

I tried looking for advice online, my bf and I both did, but no one really has good advice or truly explains what to look for or feel for or how to break a hymen with fingers.

 

Im just hoping with him sticking his fingers in me over time or with him entering me over time it weakens and breaks on its own.

I really hope I dont have some sort of issue down there where the only way to break it is surgically. 

That would suck and cost quite a bit.

Ugh!

Why can't it just go smoothly?

Does anyone know any good advice or sites that give good advice for losing your hymen?

I would greatly appreicate the help.

Thanks, lisa

Hi. When I met WD my gf my penis is inserted in her p***y and she got so much pain .and its very hard to insert pennis what's the problem it is ? help me plz

Use a lubricant lyk water based or silic0n bsd lubricant.try it

Use a lubricant,water bsd or silic0n bsd lubricnt.dnt use oil as it cn tear cndm

u should ejaculate the semen and then try

Im afraid that i wont e able to break my gf's hymen! Were planning on having sex soon and my biggest fear is that i wont be abke to break her hymen. My penis size is average(7in). Any advice?

some people have tough hymens which need to be surgically removed