Ok so I'm 18 years old I've only done pot a few times and drank alcohol once so I don't think "outside influences" r part of the issue. My bf and I have been dating officially for 3 months now and been having sex almost as long. I've been masturbating for years and can orgasm a couple times with in minutes but with Hayden I can't at all. And I get really wet so it's not a lubricant issue and we have sex 4-6 times a night sometimes and I'm usually the one who initiates it so its not that I'm not in the mood. *sigh* I feel deformed sometimes bc he can get off every single time almost (well the last like 2 of the night are iffy sometimes but that's understandable) and we were each others first. (I've been fingered before and given hand-jobs but that was about it and he's never done ANYTHING) {I don't think that had anything to do with this but I just threw it in there as an after thought} but when I'm on top he can hit my g spot every time and he's stimulated my clitoris before and my nipples but it gets amazingly blissful but never orgasmic and I get really irritated with myself. And when he hits my g spot it gets to the point where it hurts but I don't want him to stop bc it still feels good. An he's told me that he can't get off unless he's on top of me but his fave position is with me on top (same for me just bc of how good it feels) its the closest I've been to orgasming with him. I don't understand what is wrong or how I can fix it.
have you tried playing with your clitoris while he's inside of you? sometimes being on top works you just got to be really into it.
It's not that I'm not into it bc trust me I am! But will doing both at the same time work?
yes, try it & you will cum trust me, I do it all the time & we always cum together(=
Thank u! We have date night tomorrow ill try it then bc lord knows I'm a big enough horn dog it'll get down to it ;)
oKay good luck(= Have fun & be Safe(;