I am a young lady and I recently had an abortion done a month ago, and it was the worst thing ever. I was only 3-4 weeks old. I thought I was on my safe days and off my contraceptives. They say it could have been an ectopic one....
I have just started uni. and working I was torn apart on what to choose, I could cry the whole night and ask myself if I have it and I have to multi-task. Whom am I going to be living it too to take care of it, on the other hand I am in a foreign country and don't have friend, boyfriend lives in another province.
Finally I decided I will not have it suffer more because I don't have anything solid to offer yet. I went and did it, it was horrible pain and discomfort. I almost lost my job because I was missing oftenly so that I can check my HCG level. Morning sickness feeling sleepy, tired and nauseated in the mornings.
I after that week I found out I had exams coming up and I was in shock, as I noticed that there was still a bump on my pelvis on the left, painful and was still bleeding. I had to miss work and went to the hospital emergency
They did an ultra-sound and blood and urine test. They said all was well and that my womb was clear. But the pain still there.
I was so stressed that I lost a lot of weight, regardless, I still have the same bump on my left near my pelvic bone. It's been over a month now and the past three days I have been feeling pregnant again, breast swollen, frequent urination, thirsty and morning sickness again.
I started doing slight exercises at home everyday and walk for long distances and it hasn't been easy but all was going well until the date of my period passed nothing came out.
Yesterday, I couldn't walk, I felt like I had something stuck there,my belly was twinklish, I went to the doc. my results are negative.
Now I'm puzzled what's happening? Has anyone had this before?