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Umm. Well my last peroid was Nov.29,2008 and my boyfriend and i had sex the day before the day of my period and the day after. I also had sex with my ex boyfriend on Dec.19,2008. Before i went to the doctor i was kind of following the calendars online to see how far along i was and when i finally went to the the doctor i was a week behind the calendars online so im thinking its my boyfriends but im not sure.Can someone please help me??? :-(
Having unprotected sex the day before and the day after your period wouldn't constitute conception. In order to become pregnant, you have to ovulate, this happens about 2 weeks after the first day of your last period. Even being a week behind what you origionally thought would not have brought you to ovulation, your still a week off somewhere. Sperm can live in the female body for a few days as well.
I hate to say this but with the dates that you supplied, i think your x may be your baby's father.
You can speculate all day long, but the only way you will ever know the truth is to have a paternity test taken.
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Hi Milmil: I can only say that you can get pregnant at ANY time, but the chances are way higher around ovulation time which would ahve been the time you had sex with your ex!!!! :-( What I AM thinking is this, IF it is your boyfriends baby, he/she would have been conceived on the 28th or December 5th (going on a 6 days period) So that still give 2 - 3 weeks of gestation between your bf and xbf. So that should be easily detectable right now. HAve you had an ultrasound? If so find out what the gestational age of the baby is right now. If you can tell me and what your expected date of delivery is I MIGHT be able to help you a bit further with you OK? Good luck hon!
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