I had a rough time raising my child.She is an adult now,and wants to come visit and bring her children.I dont want them to visit me ever.I like having my life back.How can I get this person to back off?I dont want to hurt their feelings.I live in fear that they will come over without my permission.I wish I could move and not tell anyone my address.
So you don't want to see even see your grandchildren? The only thing I suggest is that you jut tell your daughter that you don't want to start a relationship and that is that. This is probably your best bet either way. Because if you tell her the truth and are point blank period about it then she will know that she is not allowed to show up unexpectedly also. Just tell her that it is to late to start a relationship with you. You have already been living your life normally and don't want change. :-D She will probably be hurt but she will understand!!!!!!!!!!!!!