I have a bipolor wife

Hi honey! i feel for you! When was she diagnosed with being Bipolar? It is a mental health problem that creates not only stress for the "victim" but also for the loved ones around them! They never know where they stand from one day to the next! Is she in the middle of an episode now!? Or do you think she is coming up on one? It is always best to get them the medical help, when you see signs of it coming on! When someone is suffering from mental illness, it is hard for someone else to really "make" them "Snap out of it!| So unfortunately it will be hard for you to change her mind, especially if she is having an episode! IF she has a safe place to go, this might be best for now, and in the meantime get her the help she needs - via her doctor and the mental health phone line in your area! There are distress phone lines, and mental health clinics and phone lines in virtual ALL areas, some are 1800 numbers so you can call there and they can HELP you! Because you need the help more than she does right now honey! Without you being strong, she can't get the help she needs! Like I said, if she has somewhere to go then it will probably be a good idea to let her! What I AM worried about is if you try and make her stay it COULD escalate - especially when you are dealing with someone who is not "balanced" at this point in time! So don't do this by yourself OK? I wish you and your wife HEALTH and all the best! First thing is to phone a help line or her doctor OK? Good luck honey1