soo im fourteen. for the longest time ive had a redness to my labia minor. i know its supposed to be pink soo this freaks me out. when i pull back the tissue it looks like plucked chicken skin, but reddish. ive never had sex, but ive had oral and been fingered by one person. theyve never done anything with anyone but me. i also shave. sometimes i get raisor burn but sometimes i just get little tiny red bumps at my unserwear line and in the crease between the genital region and thigh. just a few moments ago after my shower i realized i have the same reddishness around the anus. this is awkward, but i really need help. ive asked my mom and she just says its a rash and handed me creams. cant go to the doctor because mom wont take me. i got a rash after oral and told mom. she gave me creams and they worked wonders. she said if the rash wasnt gone in a week shed take me, but it was gone the nexxt morning. no clue at all what this is. need help! i also get small red bumps on my buttcheeks sometimes. also irritation according to mom.