Okay I'm 15 and lost my virginity two days ago. We didn't use a condom which I now regret doing. I heard bleeding and stomach pains after is normal. But is it normal to be expecting stomach pains and some vomiting two days later. They're not major pains but it's got me worried. And I threw up about 5-7 times last night. He did the pull out method and I blew him. He cummed in my mouth a lot and I sucked on him making sure the cum was off. We had sex after that another 2 times and he never cummed again. I heard this "pre-cum" could get you pregnant but it was very unlikely. I think it's all in my head but I'm not quite sure. Somebody help me. I was thinking of getting a pregnancy test to make sure I wasn't. My boobs don't hurt just my stomach. I don't know if it's stress cause of my family finding out or what bit someone please help me
Hi Blue,
Yes, bleeding and stomach pains are normal after you lose your virginity. They can last for several days as well - it's NORMAL.
Now for the problems, after he ejaculated it wouldn't be "pre-cum" that you need to worry about. Semen, which contains sperm, would remain in his urethra. You can't "suck" it out. Just by inserting his penis it would squeeze any semen out and into your vagina. There is a risk of pregnancy.
The pull-out method is very unreliable.
You need to wait at least two weeks, preferably three, before you take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant it takes time for the hormone, hCG, that the test looks for to rise high enough to be detected.
It would be very early for you to have any symptoms of pregnancy.
Hope it helps.
If you want, you can take Plan B or another emergency contraceptive. They are most effective within 72 hours of having sex.
After that, all you can do is wait to see what happens. Use protection before any contact.
Good luck.
A pharmacy would have them. In the US they are available without prescription to any woman of child-bearing age.
Again, if you're in the US - you can buy them at any age.
Emergency contraceptives. Some names are Plan B, IPill, Next Choice, etc.
It depends on the brand, some you just take once. Others you take 12 hours apart.
Walgreens will have them, CVS, Rite-Aid, any of them.
Yes there are side effects...
Your next few periods can be early or late AND they can be lighter or heavier than usual. You can have sore breasts, notice spotting (light bleeding) or have some cramping.
But, at least you shouldn't get pregnant.
The sooner you take it the more effective it is.