hey love and life is tuff not ur fault
hay bellasarahh just forget about everything u done, i understand the way one can feel before and after and while doing all this things, that want ur mistake, and god certainly knows the thing that u was not able to understand at that time, i have gf and one bastered took the advantage of her when she was 14 even after she involved with him for near about year or longer, that fellow even tried to intro her with some of his friend for the same thing, fortunately nothing happened it with other guys, before happening anything further i met her, and talked with her with very patiently for the long time and made her understand the kind of mistakes she did,she realized everything, and the way she told me everything i surely can say she was innocent by her mind, otherwise she could had lie to me for all. we are very much in love now and i really do care for her a lot. i never do spy her or never do ask her anything but even though she keeps me intimating every now and then, i wish that u also could find a true lover to make ur life heaven, god certainly knows ur innocence and will help u.
Sex can bring about strong emotions and this is perhaps why it is best to wait until we are mature enough to handle these emotions. Being an adult doesn't guarantee this! If you life your life having regrets and beating yourself up about them you're going to make yourself very unhappy. We are often much harsher on ourselves than our friends, what advice would you give to your friends in this situation? Your first two sexual experiences have not been very positive ones, I think it's important to draw a line under them. Every time from now on you have sex with a new partner that should be the intimate and great experience you want it to be. You're mature enough now to choose the right person, the right time etc ...and if it doesn't feel right don't pressurise yourself! Just because you have had sex with one boy doesn't mean you have to have sex with all your boyfriends if it doesn't feel right. Maybe it's important you think about what is important to you in a boyfriend and what you need to be getting from a relationship in order for it to feel right to have sex, then you can decide if that is what you're getting from this relationship. People have different ideas about what is right or wrong about sex, they may let religeous beliefs make their choices for them, everyone is entitled to their own view, what is most important is that you do what is right for you x
I am a mother of 4 children. I just found out my 15year old daughter has been sexually active for awhile. Dont know when it quite started but the reason why she told me was because she was getting an unfamiliar smell from her body down there. She was not comfortable talking to me about so she asked me to communicate via text so her siblings would not hear our conversation. She told me she was by her school nurse to take a HIv test. I did not know this could be done without my permission. I am assuming her twin is having sex also but has not confirmed it yet. I made an appointment now for her Doctor to put her on birth control & get condoms. I can not seem to wrap my arms around my 15 year old baby having sex so young. I feel like I have completely failed as a parent. There is no amount of words that can describe how I feel other than a failed parent. I did not talk to her about sex, I did not give her the tools needed if & when she decided to have sex. My sons do not have a mother-son relationship with me because they hate being disciplined. They are slightly older but live in my house still. I have no successful children right now. No one is on drugs, or been jailed, or failed school but they are not top notch in anything right now. The 23 yr old works & the 17 yr old goes to school but he lives very sloppy. If I scold, then I am the worse parent in the world. That is why the relationship is so distant. because my daughter confided in me, I can not tell another family member her secret. if her dad finds out, he will lock her up for good. Not a pretty thought there. We are divorced from one another but since re-married other people. I am ashamed as a parent & has truly failed my children. Now how can I deal with my daughter sexual activities??
Relax it's gets better. I am referring to life itself... It will get better .. trust.
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What happens when you don't inform yourself, and don't listen to God.God loves you and He knows the BEST FOR US. And no mistakes doesn't happen, not every man makes mistakes, God gave us power to overcome! you choose what you do.Now you can't turn back the time and what else can you do is get over it return to GOD, He has a plan for you/us.
Don't hate yourself because of something like that. You did what you had to. If you would've waited much longer, you probably would've lost your mind, and you did what I would've done to my id**t, NON-VIRGIN, sh*t, PARENTS who are partially the reason for me being a virgin; they DESERVE to be lied to. Now, I have to live with the fact that I may be a 40 year-old virgin, never be in a relationship for being an ''outcast,'' and, believe me, you do not want that. You would've lost your mind (probably to the point you'd want to take your own life) if you would've waited any longer. It is very hard at an emotional level at my age and now I have to do something I don't want to do (i.e. go into a brothel) just to kill the anxiety. I will regret my actions; but, since that is all I care about, I have to do something about it; f**k society. You did what you had to and you should be proud of it because, like I said, you would've probably lost your mind; that is more than I had when I was 16 and I have been losing it since. My age now is not important. No, I am NOT 40; that is something I was saying. I guess what I am trying to say is that, once you reach a certain age, there is no way out of the pain. Screw all the NON-VIRGIN f**ks and those SORRY JESUS F**** (like questonterra) who need to shoot themselves with an AK-47 and leave themselves for f-ing dead on this board who are giving you a hard time.
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So you women are gonna use a man's forgiving nature to excuse yourselves for being s**ts? Nobody wants damaged goods and yes, it does make you contaminated. But a man forgave your mistake... not all men will. and the man you really love will view you as a s***. Stop fooling yourselves and making excuses. You are damaged now, your value has gone down. Face the facts, we play the s**ts, but marry the pure girls... unless you fool a stupid and innocent guy. Either way, can you live with yourself knowing that you gave away your husband's property? He forgave you, but God won't...
your literacy skills are commendable