I think I am ready to be a parent!

well im not much older than you but i can tell you having a baby at 13 will not be easy and its way to young to start having sex. believe me im no saint but i lost my virginity at 14 and got pregnant. sadly i miss carried at 3 months. it was the scariest 3 months of my life.at that age you can not financially support a baby and the chances of your boyfriend sticking around isnt good. he may be super amazing now but a baby changes people. my twin sister became pregnant at 15 and her sons father is not involved at all. he was for a few months then once things got hard he left. as the mother we get stuck with the responsiblity while the father has the choice to run off and do what ever. i have seen it happen way to many times to way to many people i care about. when i found out i was pregnant on two accounts actually both times the fathers did not want to be involved. the first one denied my baby from the moment i told him i was pregnant. the second one decided he didnt want me anymore and ran off and got married and didnt want my baby ruining his life so i ended up doing an at home abortion. but any who trust me you are not ready. no matter how much you think you are you arent. so please please hang tight and wait. if you ever feel depressed about it or need someone to talk to feel free to message me or add me on facebook. again message me for if you decide you want to add me on fb to get my name/email.

southernlady wrote:

Bibbles17 wrote:

Hi I am a 13 year old girl:) I have an amazing boyfriend, we have been together for almost a year! He has been asking for sex, part of me says yes, part says no.... I have been going through alot with my parents and things... My boyfriends shows me love that no one else does! So I think I am ready to be a mom... He will get what he wants and I will get what I want! I am madly in love with him and think I am ready! I talk to my friends about doing this and they all say NO you are just depressed! I need someone olders advice, what should I do?? Help

well im not much older than you but i can tell you having a baby at 13 will not be easy and its way to young to start having sex. believe me im no saint but i lost my virginity at 14 and got pregnant. sadly i miss carried at 3 months. it was the scariest 3 months of my life.at that age you can not financially support a baby and the chances of your boyfriend sticking around isnt good. he may be super amazing now but a baby changes people. my twin sister became pregnant at 15 and her sons father is not involved at all. he was for a few months then once things got hard he left. as the mother we get stuck with the responsiblity while the father has the choice to run off and do what ever. i have seen it happen way to many times to way to many people i care about. when i found out i was pregnant on two accounts actually both times the fathers did not want to be involved. the first one denied my baby from the moment i told him i was pregnant. the second one decided he didnt want me anymore and ran off and got married and didnt want my baby ruining his life so i ended up doing an at home abortion. but any who trust me you are not ready. no matter how much you think you are you arent. so please please hang tight and wait. if you ever feel depressed about it or need someone to talk to feel free to message me or add me on facebook. again message me for if you decide you want to add me on fb to get my name/email.

Wow, I am really sorry and I did message you thanks:)