I am 14 years old and I have these really weird thoughts about other guys. They aren't about do anything is just about what they look like and some times I can't stand to look at girls crotch and some times guys. I hate these thoughts and I need them out of my head I want to grow up and have sex with girls and have a family. I really don't want to be gay I just want to be straight.(no offense). I have madeout with girls and ddid some experiments with a friend in like 4th grade (guy) I really regret doing it and I really don't like doing that kind of stuff. I can't stand watching gays people kiss it's just really gross. I don't like that kind of stuff. I watch straight porn and and gay porn is so nasty. I really want these thoughts out of my head!!!!
bro...maybe your just curious...yor just experimenting to see how it feels lik being gay to see if you like being gay or u like being straight..n especislly at this age....ur horomones still havent developed fully yet...so your just confuesd, but ull get over it eventually n go back to start thinkin bout vaginas and girls...dont worry dude,im 14 too..but my thinkin is always on girls...n i think thas my problem, i think too much about girls...so ull be what ever ur horomones are
This doesn't necessarily mean that you are homosexual. You don't have to panic just yet :-) Many men think about this - but it doesn't mean that they like it. Many have that wondering thought: What would it be like? While others feel absolutely disgusted by it. And as i understand you belong with the last example. As for the experimenting with your friend when you were in 4th grade - it's very common for children to play the "docter" game. More common than most people realize. And because children in that age often perfer to play with their same sex (because girls perfer dolls and boys perfer trucks - if you know what i mean), then the "docter" game usually happen with same sex. (However not uncommon for boy and girl to do the "docter" game too).
Maria :-) (Hope this will help you at ease!)
Maria :-) (Hope this will help you at ease!)
confusing, being in the teen years...
Well i used to have the same thoughts,but with help of other people i realized i mite jst be bicurious,but truely idk.till now i jst have had sex with girls,but not with guys so i really don't know.oh well hormones get u really confused.weird im 15 but hope to help n u decide wat to be.:-)!
You sent me a privet messeg but I can't replay don't know why
Here is a hint... DON'T WATCH PORN PERIOD. Porn has terrible effects on the brain. I know by experience. I am 17 years old. Back in 6th grade I started watching porn at that time I found homosexual porn disgusting... Now I am trying to fight my porn addiction, fighting homosexual thoughts and my own inner demons. DON'T END UP LIKE ME!!!!!!!!!!!! QUIT NOW BEFORE YOU BECOME ADDICTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't use the excuse "That can't happen to me" That's what I used to think... It did happen to me.
Well, one: I'm not offended in the least bit, I'm the biggest gay in the county, but I can't stand gay porn either. every one is like a Khama Sutra position. Two: Don't be afraid that you won't have a family if you're gay, I know lots of gay men who raised children, just adopt, or have a woman you trust carry your baby for you.
And finally three: (take this one with a grain of salt) I can't look at woman's "crotches" either. Vaginas look like wide, mis-shapen mouths.
Good luck in all of your endeavours!
The thing with the guy shouldn't worry you. Common even after starting puberty for at least one time, your body changes, and you are seeing if another guy is going through the same thing. But you don't like the thought of being gay or gay sex. I wonder why you are concentrating on looking at either gender's crotch. Every guy glances in the locker room too see how he compares, normal. As far as looking at a girls crotch and getting weirded out, you may be thinking about oral sex with a girl. There are many men that don't go there!! I slept with several years in high school and a few years after, and it was strictly missionary position, no wild exploration. The thought of having sex with a woman is ok, but I don't even think about oral sex. But stop thinking about people as crotches and make eye contact. You are putting unnecessary stress on your self. You need to talk to people, get to know them both male and female. You don't want to have sex with strangers. You sound like a straight guy that is taking a childhood act to the extreme. You shouldn't worry about men kissing, you don't want to do it, but they have a right to. Never put Your morals onto someone else. Don't watch gay porn, it something that you will never be involved in. Straight porn puts guys in a position of comparing them selves to what they see. In size and in performance. Porn is usually fantasizing about things you find arousing, but would never attempt. At 14 you need to realize both girls and boys bodies are changing, and they are feeling the stress to. Don't try to find out what it's like with anyone until your a couple years older and have your thoughts sorted out. Guys brag about what they have done, and 95% of it is lies to impress their friends. Your a long way from worrying about marriage and kids. Relax and enjoy your teens, make friends, your only young once. When your on your on your computer don't go to porn sites. If you need to put the filter on, and have your dad put in a password so you can't change it. Just tell him it is too distracting, and you don't want to be wasting study time.