i want to masturbate but i dont know what my clitoris is. im only 13 so i cant get any sex toys or anything. also, how do i achieve orgasm and what is it?
Hi,
Your clitoris is at the top, just above the lips. It's pretty sensitive to touch. The little sort of lump.
To achieve orgasms, i'd do them at night, on your own, lying down in bed. Just rub your clitoris. Sometimes, like for me, this gets sensitive and even hurts, so I rub the outer clitoris. You get a sort of good feeling, it's hard to explain. You should go faster and faster. If you feel like your body is starting to tingle and you feel like you need to sort of scream (in pleasure), you're doing it right.
An orgasm is a climax of sexual excitement. Your legs might shake, you might get wet, who knows until it happens? I wouldn't use toys unless you're serious, the finger is good enough. Also, thinking about sexual desires is a good way to maintain an orgasm.