Hello. I am actually a member of steady health but my account is f'ing itself again...Anyway I am 14 aswell and I am a guy. Now I do admit almost every guy on this planet would love to do that. Instead of going straight to ur too young, think of it this way. What if you get pregnant? What if u have a baby are you ready to take on that responsibility. Now, mind you this is coming from a 14 year old guy. If you feel the need that you have to do it, use at much protection as possible. Use condoms...everything. At least then you could say that you did use protection. I'm sure that in the comming hours ppl r going to be all over you about how ur too young. Think about my advice first. If you don't feel ur ready, masturbate on Skype or something. That'll get u guys through the hard times. Consider this...
ok so i want to have my boy friend ryan <3 to eat me out and have sex with me i also want to give him a bj but i barley see him. i have major fanticys of how it goes down but im afraid he wont be up for it. the way i see it me and him will be in a room and ill start making out with him than he starts rubbing my side, his and will slip under my shirt and start feeling me and work his way down he'll kiss my stomach to my v, he'll pull down my pants and start cleaning me out the slow movments of his tounge on my clit..... SEE ugh!! help me. my question is what if he dosent want to do it what do i do then? and what if i get nervous and back out? im sure he would understand hes very loving and doesnt want sex he wants me to be happy but its kind of reverse he wants me to be happy and i want sex but i also want him to be happy i love him (and i know the difference between love and lust) i dont want to be judged ive heard it before im to younge bla bla bla :) but i do want answers so please dont judge!
thank you for your time and addvice but im not planning on sex just a few sexuall themed fourplay let me say his penis isnt going inside of my vagina i just want to feel like he loves me i know that isnt the right way to show it but some people have different ways to show thier affection i dont have a skype as depressing as it sounds and if u knew are PARENTS you would know thats not an option but when i have him do what has done been said to me are parrents will be drunk and it will be a special occasion :)
also in the subject and part of the story i didnt mean like sex NOW i meant sex when it comes time but at that time when i was righting it i guess i didnt take ot in to comciteration that i could get pregnat but now thinking NO SEX just other stuff kk ;)
its alr lol just ask him its not that hard just f*****g tell him bro . tell him how you feel and how sure you are and bla blah bla just f*****g talk to him jeesh