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I'm 14 and I'm going through puberty. I have a really deep voice and pubic hair. I also have some armpit hair and an Adam's apple. I'm taller than a lot of people in my school but whenever I try to masturbate I cannot ejaculate. All my friends say they can do it but ive tried countless times and nothing ever comes out. PLEASE HELP!!!

Hi Guest,

What happens when you try?  Have you ever had a "wet dream?"

How long do you masturbate for?

Not all guys can ejaculate using the up/down motion.  Some have to "hump" objects.

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You might not be doing it for long enough, do you feel any pleasure from it? You need to let your body orgasm, you can't stop after a minute because nothing happened, or maybe your body isn't ready yet, have you ever had any wet dreams?

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I've never had a wet dream, usually masturbate for about 5 mins and nothing happens
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I've never had any wet dreams and usually do it for about 5 mins, I don't feel that much pleasure
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Your body doesn't seem to be ready yet!, Give it a while, I'm 14 turning 15 in like 3 weeks and I've never never had a wet dream!, I'm able to ejaculate though, no pleasure? Are you using your mind? Try p**n?

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I've tried p**n and it doesnt work, I usually do it for about 5 mins is that not enough?

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The normal ejaculation time is 5 minutes, Your body doesn't seem to fully ready yet, give it another year or two, it's odd that you're not getting any pleasure from it, maybe change it up and try a new type of porn eg lesbian?( I'm assuming you're straight)

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Yes I'm straight, the odd thing is that all my friends can do it as I can't
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Are your friends 16/15?, Everyones body is different, so don't be worrying :), you still have a few years left of puberty :)
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My friends are 14 and 13
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Oh, as I said everyone is different, I was able to ejaculate at 13, don't be stressed either that you can't as that can cause problems, if you ever have a wet dream that means you can ejaculate, give your body some time :)
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Hi Guest
There is no set amount of time it takes some guys end very fast others take much longer.
If your not feeling much pleasure it may take awhile.
You should feel a kinda tingly pleasure feeling as you finish with a wet or dry orgasm.
Try not to worry about what is going on with your friends if you decide you want to do it just relax and do what you like for as long as you want enjoy it don't stress over it.
It will happen when your body is ready.
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I don't use any lube or anything so I don't know if that is causing any problems. I di stress quite a bit over it and that also may be the problem
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I don't feel any pleasure
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